me nd my mate have always been together always there 4 eachove no matter what but now shes got a boyfriend and ive been wiped out of the picture eventhough i ditched my boyfriend for her!!shall i say nefin 2 her if so wot?
2007-03-13 06:36:38 · 13 answers · asked by jadie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'd say a little of both. Thsi is bound to happen. You used to get all your friends time and now it's split. I'd tell her how I fell.
2007-03-13 06:39:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in the same situation. It may seem like she is excluding you, but that is probably because she has not adapted to any long-term relationships with guys. I'd expect her to break up with him in the near future, since she has obviously only been paying attention to him, but for the time being, stay at her side when you are "needed" and hang out with your other friends when she is ignoring you.
2007-03-13 06:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by monkygrl825 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, a lot of people get like this once they find a boy/girlfriend. It's happened to me before, but my friends always come crawling back to me when they get in a fight with their boyfriends, and after so much of them ignoring me, it's had for me to want to help them. Let her know how you feel, at least then she'll know and you can save your friendship.
2007-03-13 06:41:47 · answer #3 · answered by ~♥~mama-to-be~♥~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be happy for her at the moment but if this carry on for a long time that means she's selfish then you just leave it.
but tell you one thing, doesn't matter how strong love can be it can't not do the job that friendship can. she will need you and realise soon enough. when people hurt they crowl bakin to your open arms.
2007-03-13 06:43:14 · answer #4 · answered by yiufdbgkhfjj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have been an identical way given which you have customary her? that's the venture. anybody ameliorations and evolves. you already understand the reason she is seeking atttention from others is that she would not get sufficient from YOU! looking on your age, she is often searching for extra dedication, like marriage. how some years does it take which you will make up your recommendations approximately that? Why ought to she waste her babies (assuming you're youthful) waiting for a individual to dedicate who would not even provide her sufficient interest? additionally, i'm a sprint in touch which you are attempting to ISOLATE this individual. Why do you sense a might desire to try this? anybody is SOCIAL ANIMALS! no person may be all issues to each individual, so that's common that she enjoys different persons. you desire some counseling. that's no longer A placed DOWN. you rather do. you're edging in direction of being controlling. the subsequent element is being ABUSIVE. she would be able to placed on what she needs! Who the heck are you to make outfits alternatives for her? If she is the right age to gown herself, she is the right age to %. out her outfits. you desire COUNSELING. in case you do no longer think of so then I say, specific, do the female a prefer and harm up along with her. or purely wait a minute and IF SHE is wise, she'll do it for you.
2016-10-18 07:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does happen...i had a friend who was with me alot when we were younger, then when she met her (now hubby) she left me alone, and yep...i felt left out and alone....we are still mates..... but life goes on....just stay intouch with her and ask her if you can both get together and go out somewhere one night, she's experiencing something new in her life, and you will too...she wants to be with this guy, when you meet someone new this will happen to you also...you'll want to be with him more than your friend...it's just something that happens in life...cheer up....
2007-03-13 06:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh god i have been here from your friends side but everyone tried to force me to spend time with them and that made me rebel more just tell her you miss her and ask her to spend some time with you, is my family had been nice about ti to me i would have listened instead they were mean and made me not want to be with them.
2007-03-13 06:40:12 · answer #7 · answered by kiki_dees 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not your property and she is entitled to have a bloke if she wants. Go and find one for yourself.
2007-03-15 05:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by christine s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Growing up is real.....stay in contact.........give her room for personal life.....remind her she can depend on you when her heart aches.....make arrangements for "girl's night out"....
2007-03-13 06:48:32 · answer #9 · answered by Bonnie Lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, um ... i would try to just talk to her about it. be her friend when your talking to her , don't be too dramatic about things. women hate that.
2007-03-13 06:41:09 · answer #10 · answered by Chelsea L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋