My ex boyfriends new girlfriend calls my house, my phone, sends me messages on myspace, etc. I told him to make her stop and she did for a while. Well i moved back into town and got behind them in the car yesterday in traffic. Well, now she started calling MY SISTER! Is this enough to be considered harrassment? Or just an annoying child?
Need ADVICE!
2007-03-13 06:30:34 · 10 answers · asked by sherrie.carter 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Well, it certainly sounds like harassment, but that would be for a judge to decide after hearing the evidence.
If you would like to get a restraining order, you can go down to your local courthouse and ask for help. Most jurisdictions provide free assistance to people who are seeking restraining orders. The other alternative is to consult an attorney. Good luck!
2007-03-13 06:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by EthanHunt 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Agree with the above poster, she is childish and best to ignore her unless she makes actual threats of harm or tries to harm either you or your sister, then it is time involve the police and get a Protection Order.
Both you and your your sister need to block both her AND your ex-boyfriend on your e-mails, text messages, MySpace comments and phone calls. The reason I say this is I suspect your ex is fueling the fires and playing her, otherwise she would not feel threatened if you truly were an ex. He may even enjoy the prospect of women fighting over him.
Don't have anything to do with him unless HE ends it entirely with this other woman.
A Protection Order is good for scaring sane, law-abiding citizens into straightening up and staying away from you, but will not stop the crazies and even when they are picked up for violating an Order, the are not in long, post bail and come back with a vengence and the behaviors you are describing this girl has fall more in to this latter category.
2007-03-13 06:46:16 · answer #2 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He must still call out your name when they are intimate. ( lol ). I would write down all that she has done, then keep adding to the list as more happens. Contact the authorities and share the list of things that she has been doing ( make a copy for them ). It is harassment and a report should be made, you don't know what she is liable to do yet. She definitely has a problem. Keep reporting to them when she does more ( add the reports to your list ). This way you keep a history of what is going on and how you have tried to stop it. Good Luck, hope she finds something else to do, she has problems.
2007-03-13 06:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that would be considered a harrasment. Why? Because, you no longer have anything to do with your ex boyfriend and his new girlfriend souldn't be calling you for trivial stuff. I
f she calls you to ask about your ex, you should tell your ex that, she kept calling you and asking you questions about him. Which you already did, then the only other thing is for you to tell her to quit or you can tell her that you are going to call the authorities and bring your phone records, that way you can prove the authorities that she has been harrassing you for a while for no reason at all.
2007-03-13 06:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
this same thing happened to my daughter. her boyfriend's "ex" girlfriend started calling my house to berate my girl. She would call 2-3 times a day just to call her names etc. Usually after midnight. Finally I picked up the phone and threatened to rip out her vocal cords thru her eyes and she pretty much stopped after that. But to make it stick I got her home number and spoke to her mother, who helped calm her down alittle. Never heard from her again. The funny part of this was while we spoke to her mom she made the girl get on the phone and apologize then we did a 3-way with the boyfriend and without his knowledge of the two on the line he said he was not interested in her and that she was annoying and was wasting her time trying to chase him. After she heard it from his mouth knowing he did not know she was on the line pretty much put her in her place. She never bothered him again either. Yes boys, moms can be relentless, so watchit.
2007-03-13 08:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is harrassment and any and all messages should be kept and you should make a police report immediately. Situations like this turn ugly and violent quickly. The law is on your side.
2007-03-13 06:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by Darlin1_66 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try the sites below, make sure to change the location/state in which you reside. Hope this helps.
2007-03-13 09:02:50 · answer #7 · answered by citronge69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like annoying child to me. She must be very insecure if she is worrying about you. Ignore her and she will go away when she realizes you dont care.
2007-03-13 06:34:57 · answer #8 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and the next time she bothers you, tell her that if she bothers you again that you will call the police. If she does it after your warning, call the police and file a report!
2007-03-13 06:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by Melanie S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, im pretty sure thats harassment. sounds like ex mama drama. you better get out of that real soon before you get your tires slashed.
2007-03-13 06:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by Jae Lynn 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋