was his cousin, he apologized for coming near my work place and not stoppin to say hi, and i just let it go and moved on, then 8 weeks later b4 christmas he travelled and told me he was gonna call me and say hello or wish me merry xmas and happy new year, but he didn't, to cut the long story short, he broke up with me and he told me i deserve better, i cryed but in few weeks i gat over it and moved on, but i vow to myself that i will not go out with another man until i finish my studies, and i prayed to God not to let me set my eyes on him again, then my worst nightmare began, i realize that i was 5month 3weeks pregnant for that b*stard and i couldn't do any abortion, so i called him and told him, and he had the gut to tell me that he doesn't want any of his family to know about the baby, i went to his mother and told her and she told me that she needs a DNA, i agreed but i want to revenge, people, i gat pregnant from the sex i didn't even feel not to talk of enjoy, how can i revenge?
2007-03-13 06:20:37 · 9 answers · asked by Dee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The best revenge is living well. Let go of the hate. It can't be good for your baby.
2007-03-13 06:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have more important things going on in your life right now, like the birth of your baby. Don't focus on your revenge, focus on how you can make the best out of this situation.
2007-03-13 13:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by Vivita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he starts paying child support, that will be plenty of revenge. He'll be broke for the next 18 years.
2007-03-13 13:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sue him for child support. That will be sweet revenge for the next 18 years.
2007-03-13 13:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by SunnyD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume this is part two of the story, you need to forget about him. You have a miracle growing inside of you. Have your baby and do the DNA test for his mom (tell her she has to pay for it), but forget about your ex. Talk with your family if you will need help with the baby. And I know in my state, you can get government assistance to help pay for the medical stuff, some food for you while pregnant and up to 6 months after, formula, housing, schooling etc. Learn about what is out there for you to care for yourself and baby.
BTW how old are you? its hard to know by your post.
2007-03-13 13:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget revenge, just remember you are now going to be a parent and you need to be a good role model. just make sure you get him to take care of his child financially. plus you are getting him where it hurts most, in the wallet. i wish you the best of luck
2007-03-13 13:26:16 · answer #6 · answered by glue stick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live happy and dont allow them to see the baby...revenge enough.
2007-03-13 13:24:45 · answer #7 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have the baby and enjoy your life. that is the best revenge. congrats on your pregnancy.
2007-03-13 13:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by lynnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him jealous.
2007-03-13 13:26:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋