i went through a rough spot in my life, and i came off to this girl completely the wrong way, i said ALOT of stupid things and now she wants absolutely nothing to do with me...is it too late to just simply prove to her that im not who she thinks i am ?
2007-03-13 06:03:57 · 18 answers · asked by xbr733 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You can try but i have been there... It may be too late.
Sometimes no matter what that person has to say and how much 'change' has happened its just to late to remedy a situation
2007-03-13 06:07:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't too late but it will be hard work. Telling her what was going through your head at the time and how you are sorry for the wrong impression you gave her is only part of the job. You also have to prove to her that you are not whatever it is she thinks you are. This is where the time bit comes in, it will take a while most likely but don't give up.
2007-03-13 13:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by zbak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think so, but it depends on whether or not is willing to trust you again. I know that if someone was willing to open up to me and apologize sincerely, I would be forgiving as long as I felt like that person was going to not treat me that way any longer. If you are open with her and "let her in" on your life, I'm sure she will appreciate it and have compassion. At least I would. Good luck! :]
2007-03-13 15:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First impressions are killers.. I did the same thing. After time, she saw how I really was.. just keep thinking positive, and don't bug her, but just be cool. Eventually, that stupid stuff that you did will be forgotten...
2007-03-13 13:06:51 · answer #4 · answered by Midge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not too late at all....make her laugh! Make her feel comfortable around her, but you can't push this on her. If she doesnt want to give you another chance...she'll probably think it annoying after a while...
2007-03-13 13:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals everything...its never too late...you may need to contact her after few weeks or months
2007-03-13 13:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by Its me again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try to apologize through a letter, but sometimes, you just have to own up to your actions and accept that you were that jerk and just use that to remain a better person than what you were.
2007-03-13 13:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by HappilyEverAfter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its never too late. The first thing you have to do is tell her you acted badly and you appoligise. It will all start from there.
2007-03-13 13:10:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't determine if it's too late, I guess your efforts will tell. Give her some time, and let time tell if she wants you to reenter her life. Sometimes we don't get second chances and sometimes we do.
2007-03-13 13:10:53 · answer #9 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, its never too late, just be honest with her, approach her in a non-confrontational way and let her know that you had been going through trying times and that that wasnt your true self, she will understand.
2007-03-13 13:06:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋