During a thunderstorm last night (a flood watch was in effect for my county, Bexar), I was playing basketball on my PS2. During the game, I kept thinking about this one girl.
Erin.
I feel somewhat guilty for our loss of friendship. We don't talk much, we just say hi to each other then it's over.
This has happened ever since she got with this other dude, when she promised (emphasis on promised) that the two of us would go out one night since she missed our get-together in November.
Now, at school, my so-called friends are bashing on me (literally and figurtively), since I seem to amuse them.
I got about seven days to think of something to say to Erin. What should I say? I want us to be friends again.
2007-03-13 05:59:36 · 7 answers · asked by Sean 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well, probably the guy she's dating is jealous of your relationship w/ her. He probably feels that you're trying to move in on his girl, so he made it clear to her that he doesn't want her hanging out w/ you. (Believe me, I've given up a lot of my guy friends for the sake of my husband.) If you really miss her that much, just say so! Tell her that you miss hanging out and talking to her and just b/c she's got a boyfriend now, you feel that she's pulled away from your friendship. If you need to, make a time to hang out w/ her AND her new man. Maybe you'll gain another friend. Invite a bunch of friends out along w/ her and her boyfriend, so it doesn't feel as awkward as it would w/ the 3 of you alone. When the time comes, let the boyfriend know that you're only interested in the girl's friendship and nothing more. I bet that the boyfriend is threatened by your relationship.
2007-03-13 07:16:42 · answer #1 · answered by sweet libra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let her know how you feel. you two are friends and you sjhould not let a dude come in between that. let her know that you will always be there for you and just explain that you would like it if she could still keep you in mind of new routine of doing things. if that doesn't workk out you may neede to step back because good things don't last forever and she is going to need a friend one day just be that friend and you both will realize what the situation has caused!
2007-03-13 13:22:16 · answer #2 · answered by Snickerlicious 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
let her know your feelings and she might feel sorry and might get back together. so if you think about it If you got the balls, you got to ask.
2007-03-13 20:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by speedy >>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her you want to get closer to her.
that u miss hanging out with her.
2007-03-14 01:26:47 · answer #4 · answered by Karen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her know how your feel
2007-03-13 14:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
run up to her strip her naked and do her right there your friends will no longer be bashing you try it...Thanks
2007-03-13 14:58:52 · answer #6 · answered by Candice S 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
rub her clitoris
2007-03-13 13:46:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋