Pls people this is very serious matter, give me your best thought it is a very long story but i have to cut it

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short, i used to be "Boy Shy" type of person, very serious matter, give me your best thought it is a very long story but i have to but when my friends and family started calling me gay and started to say stuff about me i decide that the next guy that comes along will definately get a short,so i meet this guy in my school, he seems so nice and God fearing, my insinte didn't feel right about it but i agreed to go out with him, a month or so later we started having sex, it was a terrible sex, i never come, i don't know maybe it's because he told me not to touch him everytime we are having sex, or just because his thing is very small ( and when i say small ladies i meant lipstick small) i never enjoyed it but i couldn't complain because i was a Virgin and i don't know how it suppose to feel, i didn't care about the sex or how he treated me, i always try to satisfy him. but one day i got out of work and saw my boyfriend car pulling out of the busstop drive way, with a girl in it, i called

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Him immediately but he didn't picked up his phone,i tried again, then he picked up and told me that the girl
was his cousin, he apologized for coming near my work place and not stoppin to say hi, and i just let it go and moved on, then 8 weeks later b4 christmas he travelled and told me he was gonna call me and say hello or wish me merry xmas and happy new year, but he didn't, to cut the long story short, he broke up with me and he told me i deserve better, i cryed but in few weeks i gat over it and moved on, but i vow to myself that i will not go out with another man until i finish my studies, and i prayed to God not to let me set my eyes on him again, then my worst nightmare began, i realize that i was 5month 3weeks pregnant for that b*stard and i couldn't do any abortion, so i called him and told him, and he had the gut to tell me that he doesn't want any of his family to know about the baby, i went to his mother and told her and she told me that she needs a DNA, i agreed. revenge

i want my revenge people, i gat pregnant from the sex i don't even feel not to say enjoyed, i want him to pay, i have always satified him with everything, i even cook and take it to school for him, everytime he needs to get laid i will sleep on the bed and follow his rules, pls tell me if i don't deserve better, i care for him so much and he paid me back by dumping me, his seed is growing inside me now the fetus is now 25weeks old, it has past abortion weeks when i realized i was pregnant, my father can't even look at me anymore, he always thought i was the quiet and focus one, i am only twenty years old, i will be 21 in august, the baby is due on june, i dont know what to do with the baby, maybe to love it or hate it, he doesn't even call me to know how i am doing, he succesfully messed up my life and get away with it, i suppose to start my nursing program next semester, but i can't and he his enjoying his life wherever he is now, i am stock with shame and regret. i want my revenge..

Answer 1

from what you say...he is a jerk and You deserve better.Do not settle for a jerk just to satisfy others comments and on top of that you are getting Bad Sex..so please drop him and ignore the comments about being gay some people are just "boy shy" so what..not gay.And finally since he sounds like a jerk..more than likely he is cheating or messing around on you---DUMP HIM!! wait around for Mr. Right believe me you will feel alot better about yourself and you will know the difference in a real man and a jerk!!

Answer 2

Well, now you know huh! This is what America is all about... people here do what they want and don't care who or what gets hurt in the mean time.
Now, don't spread your legs for the next Joe Schmo, and focus on your self! Use this experience to grow into a stronger person and love your self first. this is what people are suppossed to tell you in this situation.
This part you probably won't hear from many people,... I say, put the baby up for adoption! It already pisses you off that this guy with his tiny d!ck where able to knock you up on your first few times. You hated having sex because he didn't know what he was doing, and he didn't have the big boy equipment to "just wing it".
Hun, you are too young and financially insecure to raise this child the way a child should be raised. Their are plenty of people who can't have kids, that really want to. Find one of them, say goodbye to your "accident", and live your life the way you wanted to before you met thumbelina. Putting your child up for adoption is best done as quick as possible, before you can become too attached.
And please do not believe people when they tell you that you can make it work, that they will help, or that the father will pay for chid support. None of that matters when you are sitting at home, alone, with a crying baby and none of the helpfull people are there to give you the night off (or week, month or year off, baby's are for life! and it never gets easy!) Finish school, get a career, meet a nice & loving (maybe dorky) money making guy and make a loving family with him.
Oh, one more thing... get a box of Trojans Magnums, and find a guy that they fit, don't fall in love with him, just love the, well,... Magnum size!

Answer 3

First Things First He Must Die.... That's A Joke Because Obviously That's Against The law So You Hang With The Law You Have That Baby You Get That DNA Test And You Take It Straight To The Judge And You Take Every Dime That ****** - ****** Has And You May Want To Hang Him Instead Of Taking His Grubby Money But Logically The Money Is A Much More Effective Tool In The Long Run I wish You Luck And May He Answer For Sin

Answer 4

Your number one priority right now is the baby! Forget about the father and revenge and how terrible the sex was with him. You are past the point of obtaining an abortion. I won't even ask why you didn't realize you were pregnant sooner.
You now have to make a decision about what is best for the child. You should go to a counselor to discuss the ramifications of keeping the child or giving it up for adoption.
There are many things to consider and whichever you decide you need to be sure that is what you want to do.

Answer 5

To me it sounds like he is using you to do his buisness, especially if he won't let you touch him (that sounds weird). And if you have had sex a few times, you should start enjoying it by now. I don't mean you are going to think it is mind-blowing everytime, cause sometimes its not. But you should have some times that are all about you. Sex is give and take, just like a relationship. Now the whole part about him having another girl in his car, could be a friend or sister or cousin.

Answer 6

Everything depends on the mind. To have a control over your mind, be in the company of good people. This is the beginning. If somebody says, one cannot live without sex, I can only laugh at them :). For simple reason, I am 41, male bachelor, never had sex till this date, with anybody, still leading a very happy and peaceful life till this minute.

Answer 7

Wow, First thing is first if you are not sure you can love or provide a good home for this baby please, please put it up for adoption there are plenty of families out there that would provide a loving and stable home for your child. Next get your head together and go back to school. he can't ruin your life unless you let him. As for the revenge let GOD take care of that. You have more important things to do.

Answer 8

Please my dear, don't have a bf just b'coz others having one. Be yourself. Stop act like shy girl. Everyone in this world deserve someone okay. Your time is maybe just around the corner. Don't have to give away yr virgin just for sex. Its not love. Having sex for the first time something like the most unforgettable experience in life. Try to make the first one is the best. So if you think this guy is s**k. Just leave him. Don't bother about what others say about you, Just be yourself. There's someone somewhere... waiting for you don't worry.

Answer 9

First of all , forget about that guy.
Second - Deal with the Teenage mother stuff (it will be hard but you have to strong)
Third - Come back to normal life. Always think about how you can be independent. This will be your best shield.

Answer 10

hi
do you want this baby?if you dont have it and put it up for adoption.If you do keep it and be the best mother you can be.Its not the babys fault what happen.THat baby is part of you and if you decide to keep it you will love it with all your heart.So this guy is a jerk and you did not use birhcontrol,get over it,and decide what do you really want to do?good luck with your future hon.