If not, why not? Would it matter if you were married or just dating? Do you consider it cheating? Do guys just consider this icky?
2007-03-13 05:51:36 · 28 answers · asked by loganj1203 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Man, would I? you bet I do.
It's a big turn on to be doing your doll one way and having another guy doing other things to her.
Then, you can switch around with who's doing what to whom so that each one of the trio gets his and her piece of the action every which way but loose,
2007-03-13 06:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If she suggested it I would be willing to give it a try. I would prefer if I could help her find the right guy to do it with. Wouldn't matter if she was my wife or my gf, it wouldn't be cheating if she suggested it and was a willing participant. Actually, I've often fantasized about being in a 3some where the woman was the dominant personality, and she was directing all the action, as if we were making a movie, and we all had to do whatever she said.
2007-03-13 13:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by augen blich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A fair percentage of men have had such thoughts, but most of us leave that in the realm of fantasy. It's a fun daydream, but... And it turns out that far fewer women are in the least interested in such behavior. That reflects a fundamental difference between men and women - we guys can approach sexual encounters from a far less complex and emotional aspect than women can. Neither gender is more correct than the other, but it does turn out, based on divorce proceedings over the years, that this sort of casual debasement of the marriage contract does little to ensure a long marriage.
2007-03-13 13:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With my wife, it isn't an issue because she doesn't want any other men than me. She prefers to see me fight for her rather than see me share her. She wants to be the prize that I won, the captive that I've taken, my most prized possession. She wants to be able to depend on me for all her needs and all her worries and to know that I will be her protector and her champion, and that the final responsibility for all our decisions rests with me.
In our relationship, it represents my total control. Like I said, she wants to be my most prized possession. If I owned a prized dog and loved it with all my heart, and it didn't like having other dogs around, it's still my say as to if I get another dog, but I wouldn't because I would love the dog. But if the dog didn't mind me having other dogs, then it is totally up to me to know if I can feed, water, and entertain more pets. But if the dog went out and got itself a new owner, or started loving up on someone I didn't like, then I'd be totally in my rights to punish the dog with a stern talking to.
Now if my relationship with my wife was different, and she wanted a threesome with another guy, and if we had a more even-steven kind of relationship, then we'd talk about it. I'm all about negotiation. When we were dating, she did something that almost caused me to break up with her, but we negotiated. We negotiate still... even though all decisions are ultimately mine, I want her to be happy. If we worked out a "you can have if I can have" arrangement that I could agree with, then I'd go with it. I'd only consider it cheating if she pushed it on me against my will... which is why I've never pushed it on her unless she was all for it.
2007-03-13 17:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never ever allow another man or couple in your bed...
Swinging / Swapping / Open marriages very seldom work.
The only safe multi partner sex is a 3some with Man, wife
( or g/f ) and another woman that she invites..He must
not contact her outside the house.
2007-03-13 13:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh No, I wouldn't consider it at all. First off it would have to be two guys and forget the woman.
2007-03-13 13:07:30 · answer #6 · answered by ron s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah
2007-03-13 12:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Socks 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No!
This being the gay section and I being gay would only agree to a 3-some where all 3 of us are men.
2007-03-13 14:17:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend was involved in one before we dated regrets it though he didnt touch the other guy, so it depends on the situation and whats going on, my boyfriend will never do that again
I know you want a guys oppion in all
2007-03-13 12:55:19 · answer #9 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
Only with two other women. but- being with another naked guy would just be a turn-off for me.
It's not cheating if your spouse is there and agreeing to it all.
2007-03-13 12:55:25 · answer #10 · answered by Morey000 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋