I was ready so i called him to ask for his friendship back and he didnt want it back he said he would like me even more and then he would **** it up i understand that its hard being with a person that youve liked and you think they didnt like you back so now what? i feel better than yesterday i was crying when i was talking to him i felt like a lost a best friend please dont ask why i turned him down if i liked him i just want to know what i do now how do i forget about him? whats the best way to do that and what do you advice
p.s i feel much better than yesterday i feel sad but not as much i am thinking about it more positively like me being away from him is good because he'll get over me he will be more happy you can help him do this is you stay away
2007-03-13 05:37:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Time, space, distance, busy-ness, they are all great healers of hurt. Pain will be there, regardless of what caused the pain, it's part of being human. You just need to accept what is at the moment, and move on. Crying and worrying and stressing don't do anything to change the situation. I always say that things will work out how they are supposed to. You just have to be accepting of what the outcome may be. Just move on and let time work its magic.
2007-03-13 05:50:36 · answer #1 · answered by lee3lan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is to get busy. dont have any free time in your scheudle in which your mind will wander off to think about him. start a new hobby, hang out with your friends, get another job, anything really just to keep your mind occupied on anything but him. you may also change your routine, dont keep the same routine u had when u were with him, it will remind you less of him. also, there must have been some negative aspects of your friendship, each time he comes in your mind, just think of that and it'll keep u away from having the 'i mis him' feeling. and whatever you do, dont call him or sms him, it will just cause a rebound and u'll restart the problem alll over again with you being together and breaking up again to just restart the whole cycle. you asking him for the friendship back and him denying it shows he doesnt want your friendship, why cry over someone who wouldnt cry over you? there are many people in this world who would care for you and be even best friends than him, you deserve better.
2007-03-13 05:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by F . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They always say the remedy for an old love is a new love & that does work sometimes. I understand your hurt but you will be better in time. Stay as busy & occupied as you can & hang out with as many friends as you can. Best of luck !
2007-03-13 05:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by דְבוֹרָה Devorah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
conflict is conflict and it hurts Why have they were given to kill civilians, lady and little ones a useless ringer for Vietnam and Now Israel and Gaza is doing a similar. I hate conflict and the meaning for conflict that's all about money or potential that there is killing chance free human beings at the same time as will the human beings of the international will say adequate is adequate of conflict. If there's a conflict why no longer wrestle out of the cities those who what to kill one yet another.
2016-12-01 22:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You WILL feel better every day and its great you are thinking positive! Good for you!!
Breaking up is the hardest thing when its not your choice.
I wouldn't call him anymore -- try your hardest. You need to get out more and maybe see someone else. It's hard but you have to do it.
Good Luck to you!
2007-03-13 05:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by Only Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you didn t do anything bad to him don t you ask him to back and let for him a while (or a little time) to think and never ask him back to you cos if you were right and u did it you are a looser and if you were wrong you d better to hold on and you think he a good guy try your possible to bring him back to you cos you know friendship is the second best thing after love
and good luck
2007-03-13 05:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by red fatal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going thru this rite now. its sometimes tougher to be mates and hide your feelings. the only thing you can do, and i know how cliched it sounds, is to keep busy. i bought myself a nintendo to play on and im trying to get out the house and see other friends (hard when all your friends are shared with Him). honestly, the only thing that will help in the end is time. the more you get used to being on your own the easier it gets
2007-03-13 05:41:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ull never truly forget about him. hell always be in ur heart and mind even if its pushed all the way back and u dont think of him that often. and time is the only to get back to where u were before this began.
2007-03-13 05:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by mommie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you sound like a drama queen. Put a cork in it girl.
Don't worry about him, as soon as he finds a new breezy, you will be quickly forgotten. He is so much better off without you, lucky guy.
2007-03-13 05:43:03 · answer #9 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to figure out what you want. Until then it's very hard for any of us to give you advice. If you like him, tell him. If you dont, then you should stop speaking to him.
2007-03-13 05:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋