Ok just to start off I am married and I love him with all my heart !
A couple of friends and I went out last weekend .. I started talking to this guy that I know that comes over to the guy next doors house.. But this guy and I stopped talking about a year ago .. we are just friends !!!
Any way we talked and drank all night at the bar .. we ended up kissing a few times . I did stop him and he does know I am married and he also has a live in girl friend .. did I cheat ?? I feel so low .. this is not how I behave ever!!!!!! I really do not know what got into me that I crossed that line .. do I tell my husband or just leave it alone ? liek I said this is so out of person for me ..I would never do any thing like this .. I have been with my hsband 20 years and married to him for 6 years .. help what should I do .. I have no thoughts of leaving him for this other guy nor this other guy going to leave his girlfriend. It will never be allowed to happen again and this guy knows that ..
2007-03-13 05:22:38 · 6 answers · asked by blueflowerscs 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Girl you crossed that friendship line. So it's not "just friends" any more. At the time when you were talking to him all night at the bar and drinking you know he and the booze was making you feel good, you liked it and after the first kiss you though about it, you wanted him to kiss you again and again, that's why he up kissing you a few times, you didn't stop it the "very first time" you said "we ended up kissing a few times" then you stop it. So you liked it and you wanted it. But you know you crossed the line and now you know what to do. Stay the away from him. Your wrong. You have a husband and he has a girlfriend. You made a huge mistake, learn from it and never tell your husband. Do you know want I mean by learn from it? Don't ever get drunk or be alone with other man again. And when this guy goes next door don't make no effort to go over. Leave that man alone.
2007-03-13 05:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could tell your husband about it but it just depends if he can accept this as nothing or begin to question the entire relationship based on this one mistake. It may make you feel better but will it make the relationship better or worse. By telling him about it is putting your entire relationship out there and the end may not be that rosy.
Although, honesty is the best policy, it's not that simple. If you understand that you made the mistake and vow never to do it again, then move past this and don't divulge it. It was a mistake but the little mistakes can turn into a huge one if the other person can't accept it and move past it.
My advice, keep it to yourself and never let it happen again.
2007-03-13 12:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by trojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally won't tell him but you need to change your living habits. Why are you hanging out with men drinking at the bar?? This is not appropriate behavior for a married woman... if you can't control yourself then don't go out.
2007-03-13 12:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You let yourself get close to the edge...this could have been the best thing to ever happen to you in your marriage. Congratulations! you've just discovered you're not a cheater. Keep this close to your heart, and remember the lesson the next time you "stray".
2007-03-13 12:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by geehaw 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell your husband...just be sure to never allow yourself to get into that kind of situation again.
2007-03-13 12:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stupidity and curiosity are gated to hell. So just beheave and few kisses mean nothing.
2007-03-13 12:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by bibus75 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋