I have known this person for 13 years.. he has always had some selfish ways about him but mostly a good friend..it is wierd I felt so close to him he felt like he was part of me..then he went through some things and got distant flaky and just not there ( his girlfriend left him, he couldn't find a job) I felt that him flaking on me hurt and him pulling no shows was hurtful and selfish.. he disagreed, I told him I needed to leave him alone for while and let him work through his issues.. after 2.5 year.. it was draining me..he said fine
I missed and called him a couple months later he seemed happy about it wanted to make plans and this is when things really got wierd he say hey lets get together today I am going to call you later.. then he wouldn't call he, and he would do this every two weeks to the point where I don't even believe him.. and then somehow he would blame me and say you didn't show up? either crazy/manipulative.. I have to let him g.o what is the best way to do this?
2007-03-13 04:25:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends