if you have a perfect family, 1 or more loving kids, a beautiful wife..and then all of a sudden she tells you she cheated on you, and one of your kids may not be yours?? what would you do? how would you feel? OR...if you have a brother, he is happily married, he has one child with his wife, and you LOVE kids and you love that child with all your heart. and you find out that his wife has been cheating and the child may not be his?? i have a brother he is at that age now hwere he looks for a gf..and if some chick cheated on him, i would KILL her...seriously no joke. ILOVE kids more than anything and i lovem y brother ...so that b!tch better be careful. your opinions please?
2007-03-13 04:17:45 · 12 answers · asked by A Girl 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Been there done that........ It's harder on the kid than it is the husband. The world is full of users and abusers. Best thing he can do is just cut all ties...bust her *** in the divorce. Tell him NOT to listen to any crying or begging that she does during the divorce.
He doesn't need to be "cordial" to her, she will just use that to approach him and get a better deal.
Then after the divorce, he should wait at least a year before he does any dating. That way he won't just jump into a relationship that might not be right for him. After that he can take his time and "shop" around. It's a big wide world out there and there are millions of possibilities.
She will try to use the child for leverage on him. He'll have to hang tough and not fall into that trap. Some things in life are hard. He needs to deal with her firmly. ( And legally ) Accept it, deal with it, move forward and don't look back. She sounds like a loser who won't be happy ever. The only man that will put up with her is some little cuckold wimp. There will be better times ahead for him if he does the right thing. For her....... it will be a downward spiral.
2007-03-13 04:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by southwind 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life is life and what happens, happens if that is what you would do then no one could stop you. There are other approaches but since you are serious about harming another life you probably won't listen. If that were to happen to me then I would just divorce and take my children away from her and yes even the child that wasn’t mine and raise them to be better human beings. Murder is not an option, life no matter what goes on and there is some justice left in the world.
2007-03-13 11:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused....did it or did it not happen...are you anxious about his girlfriend and anticipating it to happen. If it did happen I would be furious and beat the hell outta her. You can't have a child say you didn't know there was a possibility he wasn't the father...right? I mean she would have to know that chance was there. If it han't happened don't anticipate that it wil because that isn't fair to her. She may be the one for him and expecting the worse will only screw things up. If he finds a girl give her the benefit of the doubt until she gives you reason not to. I tried to be protective of bro but I don't care anymore he has three girls by three women and doesn't take care of any of them.
2007-03-13 11:24:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I myself am not one to get into my brothers business, But I have two brothers that are older then me and one that is younger I am the only girl, But if one of there wives cheated on one of them, I think that I would try everything in my power to help my brother to get his kids. I would try to catch her in the act!
2007-03-13 11:24:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you...I would be devastated...but I wouldn't get involved if my opinion or help was not solicited. My brother went through a situation like that but he ended up forgiving her...guess who has the "intrusive b*tch" tittle now?
2007-03-13 11:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by maggie209 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel horrible and betrayed. To me the whole marriage would have been a lie. I can see why you are upset and I think it's great that you are sticking up for your brother. It's nice to see that but I hope everything gets better. =)
2007-03-13 11:24:35 · answer #6 · answered by Stephers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your family loyalty is admirable but dont you think its a case of looking for snow in June-it will probably never happen, relax, let your brother find his own way, and be there for him every step of the way,
2007-03-13 11:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like an episode of Springer.
2007-03-13 11:22:42 · answer #8 · answered by ketchikan_chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would mess some chick up that messed w/ my brother-i have to say though my nephew is the spitting image of my brother so i don't worry â»
2007-03-13 11:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by ksueditz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Honesty is everything, especially to someone who is faithful.
DRAGON 2008
"I BELIEVE IN U.S."
2007-03-13 11:25:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋