When I was in High School there were a handful of teachers all the guys were dreaming of having sex with or being molested by, now these ignorant kids of today's generation are being taken advantage of by these beautiful young women and these kids are complaining. Is our entire country turning gay... we're so soft and weak it's sickening.
2007-03-13 03:58:25 · 15 answers · asked by huckleberry1 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Nooo wrong. It does not damage you. As a young man all you do is think about having sex with hot women. It's not the same as a girl who is raped by some fat slob teacher nor is it the same as a priest preying on a young boy.
2007-03-13 04:10:35 · update #1
The kids aren't always doing the complaining, it's often irate parents and other jealous adults. When the kids testify, it's usually under duress. It's okay to intimidate and lie to the prosecution witness, just not the defense.
To be fair, you wanted your teacher to take you in the supply room and have her way with you, but she didn't. If she had, you might be feeling differently now. The reality does not always measure up to the fantasy. Adults are intimidating just by being adults. It's hard to say when the younger person is really a willing participant, and it's hard to admit that you weren't when your fellow students are jealous that you made it with the hottest teacher in school.
God, I never thought I'd be defending the system....
At the same time, kids often are willing participants, even when it comes to priests and acolytes. The idea of their always having to be dragged off and raped is an image promoted by the CJS to get an easy conviction.
It's a complicated situation, but unfortunately not subject to intelligent debate, just salacious headlines.
2007-03-13 04:56:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Under the age of consent is the problem, not being gay. You can find a reason for everything because you can form an opionion- but make it educated. Who is the we in soft and weak? It takes knowing who you are and not caring what other people think of you to be gay in today's world, so why not address the beautiful hott teachers and why they think it is ok to have sex with their students!
2007-03-13 04:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by stormzsecret 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People 'feel sorry for them' because High school guys have neither the brains or the maturity to know that the teacher is violating the trust of her position as an educator.
When you 'grow up' and maybe one day become a parent I would love to hear how you would answer your own question then.
For now, you are just too immature to understand.
2007-03-13 04:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by Peta G 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a chick and when I was a teenager there were a few male teachers that us girls drooled over and wanted to bang. There was one that was really hot. The point is teachers are adults and are in a position of authority. Teenagers may have raging hormones and want to have sex but adults have to draw the line.
2007-03-13 06:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's one thing for an adolescent to fantasize about his teacher, it's something else for an adult in charge and in trust of caring for children to breach that trust and cross the line.
The kids weren't complaining, but the parents were outraged. The same thing happens if a grown therapist makes the moves on his grown patient. it's not a matter of sex, it's a matter of breach of trust. It sounds exciting to you as an observer, but in reality it's very damaging.
You'll know what I mean when you have children.
2007-03-13 04:04:31 · answer #5 · answered by TJTB 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Don't count me as feeling sorry. If it is my kid I'd slap his damn fool head to a point for being stupid and that teacher better turn themselves in to the cops. Better to be with them than me; I'd be too furious to think straight. Pedophilia is garbage, whether it is a man or a woman.
Now what this has to do with being gay I don't have any idea. But I guess you have to blame someone else than live with the idea that some straight people (who look just like you) are f*ed in the head.
2007-03-13 04:50:00 · answer #6 · answered by wanfuforever 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Uh huh, and if it were a high school guy who was having sex with a "hott" MALE teacher, you'd be yelling your bloody head off over the disgrace of it.
Just because life is full of double standards it doesn't mean you have to contribute to it.
2007-03-13 04:49:42 · answer #7 · answered by castle h 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In theory I understand what you are saying - in practicality it is just a bad idea for the child.
Question for you - is this only a one way street only older women and young boys? If so defend why no other couplings should be acceptable...I would enjoy seeing how your logic works on those issues.
You normally have reasonable ideas so I am just curious....
2007-03-13 04:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you feel the same way if the boy was gay, and it was a male teacher (who the boy thinks is hot)?
2007-03-13 07:45:12 · answer #9 · answered by Harry_Cox 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I thought it was the parents that are all upset. The boys did love it. They were going around bragging about it and that's how the word got out. You are cracking me up over here though.
2007-03-13 04:02:22 · answer #10 · answered by Bee Biscuits 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋