i have a best friend and i don't know if she feels the same about me or not..meaning..if she thinks i'm her best friend or not. we talk alot, do things together, and we have similar personalities. but i moved school and she's kinda getting cold on me..but we still talk and do things together..just not as much as before..i really like her and want to be her close friend..what should i do? does she feel the same way about me?
2007-03-13 03:34:35 · 5 answers · asked by Apple Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She may be trying to distance herself from you since you moved to another school and she may think you will get involved with new friends and forget about her. Its a defense mechanism. I would let her know that you plan to stay real good friends with her and dont want to stop your friendship just because you moved, and that you really value your friendship. Try to plan a monthly get together with her doing something fun, and see if that works. She just needs reassurance. She may have been burned before where a friend moves away and they forgot her
2007-03-13 03:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by Michele D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop worring about if she is your best friend. Now that you have moved schools it is going to be a lot harder to stay close. But atleast you guys are still doing things together.
2007-03-13 10:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by kingsgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thinks u are changing or something. Or maybe she is trying to find some to who is not confused like, scared to even tell her that u love her. Just go to her and tal about ur fell, she will understand since she has the same personalities.
Or maybe she is thinking that u dont love her soshe is tying to move on.
who knows.
2007-03-13 10:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by Servant of Allah, Our Sovereign. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People's needs do changed with time. Keep the relationship but move on with your circle of friends.
2007-03-13 10:38:20 · answer #4 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the two of you have been so close in the past you need to talk to her about how you have been feeling about the vibes she is passing to you...She can't fix it or help you to understand if you don't try to talk it out with her...Don't give up on a good friendship...they are hard to come by...
2007-03-13 10:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋