whats wrong with me? please, just tell me whats wrong with me. that way i know why hes leaving me..
2007-03-13 03:33:46 · 34 answers · asked by Oklahoma Economist 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Hon, I was thinking about you last night while I was relaxing in the tub, and I know you've been having troubles with him and I was thinking that he is probably worried about you going to college and finding someone better than him so he'd probably do this to save face, honestly, I was thinking that last night before I knew this.
You are a strong, wonderful young woman, and remember this, NOTHING, absolutely NOTHING happens in God's world by mistake, and you will be okay. I know it hurts like HELL now, but you will survive-- you've been through worse, and YOU DESERVE THE BEST
Love you, girl!
j
2007-03-13 04:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by You liked me crazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAKE UP!!!!!! It isn't you!!! It's HIM!!! Quit feeling sorry for yourself, it's blinding you to the truth!!! This isn't the end it's your new beginning!!
He wasn't good enough for you, so now you get a second chance! You've got to get hold of yourself, so you can think straight and make wiser choices next time! Don't look at this as a negative, it's a positive! You dream life,man, job is right around the corner and if you don't pull yourself up, you may miss it all! What kind of life do you choose for yourself now? Do you want to move, get a new job, new friends? Just think of all the exciting things waiting for you, that you just don't know about yet! Don't waste one more minute of your life crying over some jerk man! It doesn't matter why he left, only that he didn't love you enough to stay! Now you will find someone so much better than what you had, you won't be able to believe it! Look forward, not back, that way you won't trip or fall! Here is to you making the happiest, most fulfilling life for yourself you can! Have a great day and fun planing where you go from here! Something great is right around the corner for you!
2007-03-13 03:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by wish I were 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly nothing! have you asked why he is leaving you? It probably has nothing to do with you at all, perhaps he has the problem. Cry for a little while more, then get up, wash your face, and go buy an expenseve drink from a Starbux type place, it will make you feel better, make it a cold smooth drink like a mocha frap or something.
but sweetheart, just cuz he is leaving you does not mean there is anything at all wrong with you!
(hugs, and shoulder here for you!)
2007-03-13 03:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by LoverOfQT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to cry and cry a lot. Let it happen. There is nothing wrong with. It is him. For some reason he cannot handle being in a relationship with you and that is his problem. It will come back on him when he realizes what he gave up. Then it will be his turn to cry and you will have moved on to bigger and better things. You will be fine.
2007-03-13 03:49:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry what has happend to you. I know exactly how you feel because the same thing has happend to me a few months ago. There is nothing wrong with you, guys can just be jerks sometimes. You deserve someone a lot better than that. Good luck to you and God bless you.
2007-03-13 03:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to cry it takes time to get over someone I know my b/f of ten years has been saying things to me like he isn't ready to be a father and all by the way I'm 32 weeks pregnant with our 4th child and the way I see it is if he goes sure I'll be upset and then I'll get over it and I remember men are like bus stops there's one on every corner you'll be fine.
2007-03-13 03:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by fluttergirl2004 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's leaving you because people leave. It's part of life. Someone else will come along. You'll look back on this one day and wonder why you cared so much. Be good to yourself.
2007-03-13 03:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by JaguarWoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever stop to think the problem may be him and not you? Time heals all wounds. So cry now, feel better later.
2007-03-13 03:38:53 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will stop eventually. It's good to cry and get all of the emotion out.
2007-03-13 03:37:22 · answer #9 · answered by blcria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him then he does not love you! Cry it out hon and move on your still young find someone else keep your head up friend!
2007-03-13 03:37:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋