SEXUALY ABUSED WITHOUT TELLING HER A ND WHAT WILL SHE DO
2007-03-13 03:23:34 · 9 answers · asked by melaniefaith14 s 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You should tell the doctor you're being sexually abused and she will contact the legal authorities.
2007-03-13 03:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by expatmt 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If the other questioned you asked about the hospital and accident are true and that dr could tell, yes, the ob/gyn can. You would probably have small rips and tears in your genital area. You really need to tell someone if this is true. Tell the ob/gyn. Tell someone.
You do make me wonder some-- if you are being sexually abused, why would you not tell an adult close to you but you would tell a bunch of strangers in 6 questions online?
2007-03-13 18:00:00 · answer #2 · answered by Trouble's Mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to tell somebody whats going on!
But to answer your question unless their is serious bruising the doctor can't tell if you've been sexually abused, and sometimes they see heavy bruising and assume rough sex. Chances are your mother won't be in the room but even so the doctor won't tell her you're not a virgin. Doctors aren't allowed to do that!
But please get help! Tell someone who you can trust! You don't deserve to have this happening to you! Best of luck with everything! I hope you're okay!
2007-03-13 10:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by Lindsay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know your scared, but I also know you have to be tired of the sexual abuse. Now is your time to tell someone that is "safe" to tell. No one needs to live with or around someone that is sexual abusing you.
She may or may not be able to tell that there is abuse going on depending on the trauma to the vaginal section if there is no trauma then the likely hood of knowing your being sexually abused is little to none. They will ask you if you are sexually active. It's time to speak up about what is going on!
2007-03-13 11:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by be happier own a pitbull 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well usually since your 14 they ask if you want your mom in the room. ask to have you mom leave then when you doctor goes to check your genitals, tell her that you are being sexually abused. she will know what to do.
idk. why you havent told anyone. that is horrible to have that happen to you! TELL HER AND IF YOU DONT TELL HER TELL A TEACHER OR PARENT OR FRIENDS PARENT, JUST SOMEONE. this is horrible, and you should not deal with it everytime it happens, if he says he'll hurt you still tell, then he can be put away for even more charges.
2007-03-13 16:20:25 · answer #5 · answered by .Frequently♥Dazzled. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are being abused it's important to tell somebody. Nobody should be allowed to do this to you. Your Doctor will be able to help you. I know it's scary, I was sexually abused myself as I child, but be brave, you won't regret it, it's time to speak out.
2007-03-13 10:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey you do need to tell some one....i know its not easy... i been there my self...the longer you wait the harder its going to be if you are emotional attached to this person....please tell someone that can help you. i was 14 when this happend to me and iam 15 now....so imyself am still in the big part of the healing of the whole mess.but please tell some one.
2007-03-13 12:26:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats prolly y u got tha yeast infection mmm girl that terrible u shouldnt b treated likethatu better tell ur doctor about it! and yeah she gonna def. notice!
2007-03-13 10:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, she will see your not a virgin, and if your mother is in the room, may or may not mention it. thats probably the reason you have a yeast infection. i know you really dont want to, but you need to tell someone. if not the doctor, and friends parent. but please for your sake, please get some adult to help.
2007-03-13 10:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋