does your boyfriend....?

Question

my man has called me for the past 2 days but i never picked up my phone because i was upset. but i didn't tell him the reason why i'm upset at him. then he stopped calling yesterday......my question is, about how many times does your boyfriend call you every day? and for how long does the conversation last before he has to hang up? why does my boyfriend only want to see me at night?? he's been acting shady

Answer 1

you shud talk to him and ask him y do you what to see me only at night and he shod tell you but i think the resone y is because he is busy and he wood like to destress with you and hug you and kiss you but i think that you shoud call him now before you are going to lose him for ever.

good luck ;-)

Answer 2

My bf texts me I never really recieve a call from him just a text asking if im ok its a plain text message but at leat he still contacts =] and thats around when he finsishes work around half 4 to like 7. I ask if he wants to talk omn th ephone and it normally last half an hour . Your bf prob wants to see you at night becuase of your arrangements if your both busy during the days only night is the option. And theres more to do during the night its more socialable maybe he likes to go out to a nightclub with you have know that his friends are there.. Thats what we are like. Ask him if he wants to go out for a pub lunch during the day that way he knows shopping wont be invovled and he can have a few beers where maybe footie is on..
if that doesnt help why not try booking a city break together for the weekend that way you are together for the day and night for a few days!
hope that helps!
Leah

Answer 3

Hey , my boy friend josh have been together for a year and 8 months on the 16 and we text each other all day or when we can because i work over nights and he works days and he wants me to get plenty of sleep . i call hI'm when i leave his house to go back home to sleep because he wants to make sure im home safe and if i don't call him with in a few minutes he calls me just to make sure that everything is ok , but when we take the break from each other he calls me and we talk bout half to 15 and then say ill call him when im ready to go to work so he can relax and do what he wants to do . so it verys as we talk and text all depends on what we have to share with one another . and if your boy only wants to see u at night something doesnt sound cool . that could be that he is cheating , and or is he working ? are u guys in school ? that is wrong if he only wants to see u at night and i never had that prob but talk to him and think positive and things will be ok :)

Answer 4

Your bf was calling you ,you never answered so now your bf has stopped calling you I don't blame him you wanted him to run after you but it didn't work that way. I don't think it matters how many times your bloke calls you or how long you talk on the phone as long as you do talk.Is he seeing his pals in the day time.Your question about seeing you at night. is this every night, you don't say the time he see's you, if it is very late I would say he is using you for sex after he has had his day and night out, If this is the case dump him you deserve better, tell him to go and wipe his feet on someone else's door mat.

Answer 5

My husband and i phone each other about 4 times a day, just to hear how the other's day has been so far or just to chat. I think it is very unfair for you not to tell him why you are upset. He is not psychic so please communicate with him. Us females just expect guys to read us and know what is bothering us but we dont communicate this with them. You will loose him if you play mind games. Maybe he has been acting dodgy because he is not sure how to act with you or he is too careful to upset you because you might be upset with him again. Dont make a mountain out of a molehill..then you will have to climb it..just ask him!

Answer 6

first of all he obviously has no idea why ur not answering, so it would be decent of you to communicate this, if he does know whats wrong...answer the fone and try to sort it out.
my boyfriend calls me once a day, maybe a few txts here and there. the length of conversation isn't relevant as some days you may have more to say than other days.
why not ask him why hes only interested in only seing you at night.
these are questons only your fella can answer, communication is so important........talk and sort it out. good luck hun.

Answer 7

Well if he has upset you why did you not talk it out with him?? He has stopped calling because you wont pick up his calls it seems. You cant measure your relationship by anyone elses. I talk to my b/f every morning but that might not be the case with someone else. I suggest you have a talk with him.

Answer 8

You need to sit down and talk to him - you don't say how old you are or how long you've been together.

I only see my bf of 8 months in the evening (we both work), rarely talk on the phone and when we do its only for short periods, but we have talked about it and we're agreed that we both want to take it to next level i.e. spend more time together etc.

Answer 9

my boyfriend calls me everyday and it usually lasts for an 1hr an 1/2 your boyfriend is probably confused so explain the reason your upset to him. a good relationship is based on trust.

Answer 10

don't you think that it's fair to tell him the reason why your upset with him, he's not a mind reader, pick up the fone and tell him, stop playing games with him, no wonder he's acting shady, he does not know what going on coz you won't tell him....