...was divorce you because I still loved you"....what could that mean?
2007-03-13 02:20:37 · 37 answers · asked by RealEYES 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Still messing with your head.
2007-03-13 02:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by wizjp 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Just because you divorced, does not mean that she didn't love you. Divorce usually DOESN'T have anything to do with love. It is a lack of compatibility. People grow and change, and sometimes not together. She loves you and probably always will. It doesn't mean that she wants you back, it means that the best thing for her to do was divorce you, because of the relationship's down falls. What ever was the cause of the problems in your relationship, is the reason you divorced, not because of the love factor.
2007-03-13 02:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by Austins Mom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means she still loves you and probably feels she made a mistake and doesn't know what to do about it now?? It's probably not a good idea to reconcile even if you love her unless you both were to go to counseling, together and alone. Divorces are hard and it could be that everything has been such a change and she is having a difficult time adjusting that she needs you... Needs you because she's comfortable with you and nothing more, who know> Only she does and may not be too honest at this point, remember....there is a reason she is your EX...Good luck.
2007-03-13 02:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by justwondering 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Divorce is never a pleasant experience, it takes a toll on you.
I am sure she still loves you because after all she did marry you. Not all could have been bad. This dose not mean she is looking to get back together. It means it is harder to break up when you love someone but can not live with them. I think you are reading into the statement a little to much.
2007-03-13 02:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means that she still Loves you, But she knows that it was the right thing for you 2 to get a divorce.
2007-03-13 02:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by butterflybaby 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do not know the reason she divorced you, but she had some reason to divorce you, but she still loves you. For example, you may not be good with the finances and had not changed, but she could no longer cope with this aspect of life with you. This does not mean she didn't love you anymore. People can still love each other, but not get along when they live together. I think she means just that. She still loves you and didn't want to leave you, but there was some reason she could no longer live with you. Good luck.
2007-03-13 02:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by tumbleweed 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That could mean that she didn't really want the divorce but she didn't want to continue to live like you were. Maybe she decided she deserved a better life than she had and that was the only way she could attain it. She apparently did a lot of soul searching before she divorced you but knew the relationship was going no where and couldn't be brought back to where it should be.
2007-03-13 02:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I means that she was not happy and she did not want to stay in the marriage anymore. Loving each other in a marriage is very important, but it is not everything. You need intimacy, respect and trust. I still love my husband as in I care for his health and overall well-being but because of the way he treats me, I am not in love with him anymore. We are only staying together right now due to a private situation. We are literally living as roommates.
Just because your ex-wife left you does not mean that she does not love you. She probably just needed to do it for herself. Which is kind of selfish in a way but the reasoning behind it was probably right for her.
Marriages fall apart. Just move on and maybe you and her will get back together in the future, but until then just be there for her, but you still have to live your life.
2007-03-13 02:31:56 · answer #8 · answered by Lizzy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've said this to my ex. For me, it meant that I did love him, but was not IN love with him, and just couldn't stay married to him because of our differences in thoughts about children, discipline, money, and everything! It was hard because I knew he believe in "forever" marriages, no matter what, and it hurt him deeply. It was the hardest thing I have ever done in my life, but I am so much happier for doing it.
2007-03-13 03:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That she had given it all she had and tried as hard as possible to make the marriage work, but something wasn't going right and it was very hard for her to let go. She still did love you, but most likely felt like you weren't changing and trying to make the marriage work. It is very hard to hold things together when the effort is only one-sided.
2007-03-13 02:26:02 · answer #10 · answered by Arlene P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that despite the reasons you gave her for divorcing you, she still loves you. Look long and hard at what you did to her and maybe you will understand why she did what she had to do.
2007-03-13 02:31:28 · answer #11 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋