I'm a bisexual transsexual and I like to be told what to do.
2007-03-13 02:10:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am much like you, I love having somebody else in control. I never liked being the one who was the "leader" in a relationship.
2007-03-13 07:40:50 · answer #1 · answered by cd_aimee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, as i am married and straight...not bi or gay...
i am very submissive to my Filipina wife..i got married to her when i was forty and she was 33...and now i am very trained as thats our style.
i was married twice before and i used to be a real stinker in the relationship department..its my way or the highway..yeah
stuff like ..hey..its my money...
but i soon got tired of being the boss as it was one fight for control after another and now i am so submissive that i almost give up on trying...its so much easier to give in..and at the age of 62...i live longer then having to face a battle every day 24/7...i had a few submissive lovers but i grew tired of them...some would do about anything i asked..but i just used them and went onto greener pastures
but my third wife was never married with no children and did not want any..and she is a great worker..great in the kitchen and a very very thrifty person...something i learned to appreciate as i was a spender before...now i have a home that is paid for and no debt at all...so my retirement is 100% all ours..but i still want to work as a nurse aide and she does too to make some extra $$$ and its good to volunteer your time to help those elderly people who need a respite?
submissive behaviour is only good if you have someone you can trust your life with...if you don't have trust, faith and love..then you better not do this form of lifestyle...don't be a victim to any man women or child. Good Luck...you need it
2007-03-13 02:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of BDSM sites on the net. Just remember that if you choose to behave submissively there are safety protocols to get in place so you don't get in over your head. Safe, sane, and consensual are the watchwords. The American Psychiatric Association in the late 1980s declared that Dominance/submission play is a perfectly healthy and normal form of human sexuality, so, no, there is nothing wrong with it.
2007-03-13 04:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there are nearly as many, if not more, ways to enjoy sex than there are humans -- that is every likes different things. Many people enjoy being either dominate or submissive or both in a relationship. There is nothing wrong with it as long as you both are consenting and you both understand and respect any boundary conditions that either of you have.
2007-03-13 02:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by Pirate AM™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that's how you want to be then so be it. I'm aggressive and I don't even associate with submissive people because they allow themselves to get sh!ted on and it pisses me off. Therefore I just stay clear of people who won't stand up for themselves. My advice is to pick your head up and put your foot down. Come back to earth and kick some tail!
2007-03-13 02:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I'm a virgin, being submissive is sort of like a fantasy of mine when I'm married...
lol...I think about it at times...
no there's nothing wrong with it...
2007-03-13 04:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by i ♥þîÑk☆ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being submissive isn't "wrong". that would mean being the aggressor is "right". that's crazy...
I'm submissive in the bedroom but not usually any other time...
follow your heart...and don't worry yourself with "right and wrong"...
2007-03-13 09:40:33 · answer #7 · answered by Marsha Mellow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reckon there are better sites than this to find what you're looking for, though I make no judgments. Google your desires.
2007-03-13 02:16:11 · answer #8 · answered by obelix 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're happy being submissive then do it.
2007-03-13 02:14:24 · answer #9 · answered by cynical 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, if you feel that that is what you wish to express either personally or sexually, that is your choice. Isn't freedom of person a wonderful thing.
2007-03-13 02:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋