Well Im going to follow that advice that people give me. Im going to be a laid back chick and leave him alone. How should I wait to call him again?
2007-03-13 02:00:13 · 7 answers · asked by ~Crazy N Luv~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why do you think you need to test your relationship with him? If he feels the same as you, then he would call you no matter whether you called him or not.
I think there is something deeper in the problem for him and he is not man enough to just tell you, so he rather not contact you and pretend your not around. Look I was in a similar situation not long ago, when we were together things were brilliant, but then he would go all cold on me and then want to see me and he would make all the arrangements. My feelings and life in general was controlled by this one person, I really felt that I found my Dr McDreamy (if you watch Grey's Anatomy you'd know what I mean!), so I confronted him and well, lets just say I now have my life back and I'm in full control of my feelings ... it will hurt at first, but that will ease in time and you will actually feel better that you have your life back, I do and well when I think back, I don't blame him, nor am I angry at him, as I am no longer the person just waiting around for my happiness determined by one person, but determined by me.
Good Luck and be strong!
2007-03-13 04:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should wait and give him time... Love is spelled time and if he is the one and is meant to be for you and your life he will come back... They say when you love someone you let them go. If it is not meant to be then you can move on with your life and start living it and dating other people... Good luck to you :) Here comes lots of hugs your way. He just may end up calling you because you are not calling him and this might make him wonder hey where is she and why is she not calling? Play a little hard to get and it just may change things lol. However there is not really a guarantee he will come back you will just have to wait and see on this one.
2007-03-13 09:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like the song says: Let your horse go, if he comes back, the horse is yours, if he doesn't, that is not your horse.
Being needy and clingy is NOT atractive. If you demostrate that you are emotionally independed, he will be atracted to you. Acting and being desperate is not going to make your man fall for you,
Good luck
2007-03-13 09:18:17 · answer #3 · answered by Blunt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always look at it like this, if he wanted to talk to you, if he wanted to be with you - he would be. He would make the effort. If he's not calling or emailing you and not making the effort to get in touch, then it's simply not meant to be. You shouldn't be the one always making the first move.
2007-03-13 09:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him again!! That's the whole point! Remember the phone works both ways...if he wants to talk to you, he'll call you!!!
2007-03-13 09:04:21 · answer #5 · answered by Siren_Cin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is ment to be he will come to you. Dont call him let him call you.
2007-03-13 09:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by gizmo0013 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes wait...
2007-03-13 09:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by Cutiepieblueeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋