would you say that i was wrong?......... well i have a boyfriend, i think i maybe bi-sexual but i have not told him!...... would i be wrong to explore this behind his back or would it be cheating?........ or do you think its ok b/c it would be with a female?
2007-03-13 01:49:24 · 19 answers · asked by shyla 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm sorry hun, but yes it would be cheating. I'm will speak for myself that I am bi-sexual. Would you like it if he was with a man behind your back? I'd rather say no. I know my girl would be pissed if she found me out with some guy. You rman will do the same towards you and be angry. Cheating is cheating. Simple as day. Black and white. If you wish to explore bi-sexuality then break up with him. Or else be a good girl. Cause you know, what goes around comes around. And being with the same sex is not to different with being with that of the opposite. (You can relate better though)
2007-03-13 01:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by Vagrant//A.I. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating, no matter if it's with a boy or a girl.
The question is : do you still love your boyfriend? If so, why should you cheat on him? Live happily ever after...
If you have doubts about your relationship maybe you should put it on hold a bit, take some distance from each other and find out how you feel about him...
You could agree that during this period you can date other people... then you can go exploring... but I wouldn't do it behind his back...
Question is, how do you think he would react to this "secret" of yours...
2007-03-13 02:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's cheating...would you wanting to explore his sexuality with another man without telling you?
being bi-sexual seems to be a 'fad', so to speak, among the younger adults. i don't know if it's just more out in the open or if young women think that being bisexual is what guys want so they do it...
if you are bi-curious, by all means, explorer that part of yourself...no pun intended...
don't cheat though...that's just not right to cheat on someone who's under the impression that he's in a monogamous relationship...
2007-03-13 02:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by Marsha Mellow 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are in a relationship, why not just be honest regardless of what you are? Some men don't care but some women do so if you were to get involved with another woman, maybe it will get in the way in the long run so you might as well be honest.
2007-03-13 02:13:47 · answer #4 · answered by meganzopf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's wrong. If you wish to pursue the possibility of your bisexuality you need to talk to him and see whether or not he would be comfortable with it. Some will. Some won't.
To go behind someone's back with someone else is always wrong, regardless of the genders involved.
2007-03-13 02:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be cheating!! Turn the situation around how would you feel? When you are in a realationship you are saying you are my only one.Doesn't matter what the sex of the person you want to be with is.
So either end it with him or get those thoughts out of you head.Be strong either way.
2007-03-13 01:58:15 · answer #6 · answered by gibbygirl38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What difference does it make whether it's with a female or a male? If you allow a person to believe that you're committed only to him/her, and then you go out with someone else, you've cheated.
2007-03-13 01:52:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant play the gender card when ti comes to cheating. If you cheta you are immoral and should be punched. Just ignore it while your in a relationship anmd if you feel you need to "explore" break up with him, take a break, do whatever you need to so that you dont hurt him.
2007-03-13 01:52:39 · answer #8 · answered by Dagnome 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some guys would enjoy watching, hearing about, or participating in girl-girl situation. However, if you do it behind his back without talking about it, it is cheating.
2007-03-13 01:55:33 · answer #9 · answered by Pirate AM™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tel him what you do behind his back. your in a relationship where you share everything, would you like him to tell you if he was exploring homosexuality behind your back, you would like to know, Cous when you realize you only want him it's gonna bother you that you went behind his back, and when you decide to leave him, he would be more fine with it
2007-03-13 01:54:47 · answer #10 · answered by (",) JJ (,") 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋