Me and my boyfriend started going together in April 2006. We went together for 2 months and it ended in the beginning of July 2006. I messed the relationship up the first time. I accidentally said it was over out of anger. I tried to get back with him for 6 months (half of a year) and we finally got back together in December 2006. We stayed together for 3 months and broke in March 2007. He believes other people and I want him back. He is my heart and without my heart I can't live. I talked him and he acted like he didn't want to be bothered with me. I usually text him everyday and he told me to stop and I asked him did he want me to leave him alone and he said yes. The thing is I can't just stop talking to someone that Im used to talking to everyday. It isn't that easy. I want him to know how I feel about him but he won't talk to me. He is the air that I breathe. I want no one but him. I'm so lonely and I need some advice. How can I express myself to him? How can I get him back?
2007-03-13 01:11:32 · 5 answers · asked by ~Crazy N Luv~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm almost going through the same thing. I was dating this guy named Joey for 3 months and we were perfect but then things starting getting weird (or I was tired of him) so I said I just wanted a break. And he wasn't for it but he wanted me to be happy so he let me have my break. I screwed up a lot during the break I put him through hell and hurt him bad. Over this past weekend I finally realized that I really do love him and I need him in my life, because two different guys who I had crushes on asked me out and I told them no because I am in love with Joey. So this past Sunday night I called him to try to talk everything out and he very blunty and surprisingly said "I don't love you anymore" just like that. That was a long horrible night for me and I'm still not okay but when it comes down to it we both just need to forget about them and move on with our lives because if we get stuck on this then we'll never be able to do anything for ourselves. And still trying to talk to them even though they don't want to will just make everything a lot worse. Then they will dislike us even more. The best thing to do is just stay away from him for a while, just ignore him. Find something to do with your spare time that will keep your mind off of him. Good luck <333
2007-03-13 03:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by xfallendaysx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart you STINK of desperation! NOTHING turns a guy off more than a chick who's totally desperate! So if I read your question right then you dated for 3 months and broke up, you wore him down for six months and got back together, you broke up AGAIN another 3 months after that, and now here you are text messaging him and being a total pain in his asss??? Does that sound about right? Bottom line is that he's already told you to leave him alone! He doesn't want to be with you anymore! If you two have ANY chance at all, then my advice is to go back to being the girl he started dating in the first place! Remember her? She's the fun, happy, cool chick he probably really liked before you started telling him how you couldn't live without him, couldn't breathe without him, and who's heart would die if he ever broke up with you!
2007-03-13 08:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i know what your going through and i understand your actions. sometimes it's difficult to just let the person you love so dearly with all your heart that you can't breath when he is gone but i think you've fought enough for your love. let him also fight for it, by giving him space and time to think about your relationship.if he's interested in resolving the problem, he will be willing to talk to you but the further you nag him and declare your love to him, the further he pulls away. trust me coz i have been there honey and i know how it hurts. You will get some other boyfriend who is meant for you en don't make him think that he is the only man for you coz i know the right choice for you is there. don't make him come back to you coz you will fail but let love take it's own course.
stellah
2007-03-13 09:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by stellaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont like to turn you down.but usually give him some space.some time.dont call him and dont sms him for a while.make him miss u,make him ask question qhy u are not calling. and stuff like that.good luck i'm feeling with you.
2007-03-13 08:29:08 · answer #4 · answered by Mr LB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Realize that, and move on.
2007-03-13 08:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋