I’m an Indian 23 male. Presently working as an office boy in Abu Dhabi, UAE. As everybody I too had a lot of expectation about my life. I was a very good boy in my school days. I could pass my SSLC (10’Th) exam in a first class mark. But by many a reason I couldn’t perform in my +2 (12’Th) class. After my +2 I had a 2 to 3year’s break in my education. During that period I went in 2 an institute where I could learn Photography & Photoshop. Though I went 2 learn Photography I seemed 2 have interested in Photoshop. This is my problem (irresolute mind) that I would like 2 discuss with U. But by that I could be an accomplished Photo designer with short cut keys (a good speed). I don’t know what I lacked 2 not continue in the field. Then for a while I joined in an institute 2 learn X-Ray welding. Though I finished the course I didn’t even asked for my certificate by the reason some one told me that I would not be able 2 get a related job in Gulf countries with out a minimum experience of 5 to 10 years. I didn’t even enquire whether it was true or not. This is my problem (irresolute mind) that I would like 2 discuss with U.
Within this time my mind longed too much 2 get higher education. Then after 3 years I went in 2 my +2 school 2 buy my Transfer certificate & related papers!! I started 2 study again for BA English Degree course. I wrote my 1’st year exam well & yet the result published. Soon I wrote the exam I saw the advertisement that my company (supplying office boys) published in a news paper. By my lack of looking before leap I fell in their sub contracting trap 2 a very small salary. Now I understand something that caused me 2 fail in my life ambitions. But yet I couldn’t get a clear picture. This is my problem (irresolute mind) that I would like 2 discuss with U.
But U can’t blame me for all this completely. Because for all this impatiently moving, I had a reason that due 2 the bad debits that my family has in various banks. We have 2 make huge money for the interest itself every year. So I wished 2 overcome all this problems all of a sudden by getting a job abroad. Any way now I learned a lesson that we can’t make money with out a good profession or well education. So now I wish 2 try once more in those fields. Now I have decided 2 leave my family in a crisis by selling our home instead of bearing those bad debits & interests (only for a small period-after I got a good job can’t I replant them 2 an own house from a rent house?) Here is I need Ur helps 2 lead me in 2 light.
What I need 2 study now? Should I continue my BA? 2 tell U frankly now I have interest in neither education nor Photography & Photoshop but in computers.
Before U answer me 2 the question that “can I become a software engineer or even a computer operator”? U may need 2 know my stand in computers. I came 2 know about computers during my Photographical studies. Then itself I had too much interest in short cut keys. If so now I have a good speed 2 do any kind of program even without mouse. I mean that even though I see a program that I haven’t seen in my life before soon I will be able 2 understand this is this & that. By this interest itself I could learn a lot of short cut keys as well as Commands. Now what I’m telling U that I am able 2 operate a system & all the common programs like MS office, excel, etc without a mouse. I clearly know that these things only are not a qualification 2 be a software engineer. Then what I’m asking U that “do U believe I’m able 2 be an s/ware eng? If so what should I do? Or do U see any other field suitable for me? Or should I continue the job that I’m in now & try 2 solve the bank debits with this small salary & help my parents 2 not desert in 2 a rent house? Hurry pls advise me, I don’t know any thing what I should do
by yours
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2007-03-13 00:32:04 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Stay where you are until you are debt free and make up your mind 100%....
2007-03-13 00:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if I can offer any help. But I can tell you this. If you are truely interested in an Education, in the United States. Then now is the time before you waste any more money or time. The United States will not accepted degrees from foreign counties. Experience can get you a entry level job here. If I were you, and wanted more, and wanted to travel. I would look to continue education in the US. You are young enough that this could be done. But you need to start by finding away to enter a College in US. There are alot of opportunites for people who work hard and are willing to get a degree in the US. Then to help your family money could be sent home. My cousin married a man highly educated. Speaking 5 languages, degrees from several countries, but not from US, when He came here all he could do was obtain an entry level postion. Very sad. So this is why I tell you, if you want to work in the US, then come here and get a degree here. Then you will be able to work at the level you deserve.
If this is not your wish, then sorry for taking your time with this response.
Best Wishes & God Bless
DJ
United States
2007-03-13 01:17:36 · answer #2 · answered by DJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say this but it's quite clear that you are spending your energy and intelligence in the wrong places!! with the skills and knowledges that you said you have, there's no reason for you to be wondering about what to do with your life. I am suspecting that you are not willing to be responsible for the life decisions you needed to make, and it's always easier and less painful if others could make the decisions for you. But the consequences of such lack of resolute is the life you don't want.
Hate to be cruel but I would suggest that you stop asking others for the solution of your own life and start doing one thing at a time to get the problems solved. I am afraid there's no other ways.
2007-03-13 00:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look is this story coming out on paperback?
I haven't got on day and night here!
Do what you think is best for you.
As for me I need a drink after looking at all this paper work. I gave doing income tax's a break by coming on here.
And I gotta tell you doing my tax's wasn't this stress full.
Sorry bud gotta go.
2007-03-13 00:47:14 · answer #4 · answered by Bluelady... 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow you definitely lived since the time of Siddharta Gautama Buddha....how old are you??
2007-03-13 00:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please modify you question man?It`s too big to go through
2007-03-13 00:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by dom i 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋