yesterday my wifes best friend stoped by the house before my wife got home from work. we were sitting an watching tv an talking at the same time, when she reached over an kissed me. what do i do? do i tell my wife? after the kiss i got up an went into the bathroom an when i came out she was gone.
2007-03-12 23:55:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes go and tell your wife it could be a test to see if your honest you could have been set up!
2007-03-13 00:01:15 · answer #1 · answered by pimpster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Best friend?? I don't think so. I bet she was gone. Honestly, I wouldn't give the friend the time of day--don't call her and explain anything to her. You know what you need to do...I wouldn't let her in the house without your wife there. I don't allow men over here when my man is out. I don't know what to tell you about whether or not to tell your wife. I would say don't...but then again, I would want to know that my "best friend" made a move on my man. I wouldn't want to hang with her or invite her over any more. She crossed the line. If you do tell her, assure your wife that you love her more than anything and that you were totally oblivious to the situation before hand. And, that you will not have women over at the house--alone with you--when she is not there (with the exception of mom and your sisters.--if she has sisters and they stay in the house & your alone, go out shopping or visit a friend--although, its also a matter of trust). There are friends that wouldn't have done such a thing...or would not have hung out with you watching TV while the wife was out.
2007-03-13 00:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should confront your wife’s friend and ask her “what was she thinking????????” and then tell her that you don’t want any such incidents in the future (hopefully you feel the same way) and also to avoid coming in when your wife is not around!! You should give her a chance because you may never know what her situation or position at that time was!! Anyway it is much healthier if you could keep your distance as well!!!!!
2007-03-13 00:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me yup, you need to tell your wife what happened especially when you can tell that such a kiss from your wife's friend is not just a simple kiss but means something.This way you can say to yourself that you've been a good husband and I know your wife will appreciate what you've done. Also this is one way of stoping your wife's friend from doing such a thing to you before it goes beyond your limits....
2007-03-13 00:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by jaxt517 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'd better tell your wife. What if she gets angry that you didn't make a move and tells your wife that YOU made the move. Do you think you wife will believe her or you? Yeah, tell the wife - The best defense is a good offense.
2007-03-12 23:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't stir up any more trouble than what is there...Don't tell your wife, just call the friend and say you were flattered, but you love your wife. Don't come near me again if you are intending to ask me to cheat!
2007-03-12 23:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing is to talk to the woman and tell her you are not interested and you love your wife, she might have been embarressed when you did not reciprocate, and thats why she left. tell her its something best forgotten and not tell your wife. all you will do if you do tell your wife is create alot of havoc and you dont need that.
2007-03-13 00:01:04 · answer #7 · answered by glazer_098 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Tell your wife.
2007-03-13 00:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by kelstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT!! definately tell your wife! When I am older and get married and my best friend kissed him, i would be CRUSHED! you do need to tell her, what if that happend to you..... you wifes friend is an inconciderate, well i can't finish the rest because it won't let me!
2007-03-12 23:59:14 · answer #9 · answered by buddyholly4eva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should probably talk to this girl and ask her why she did it, and then pherhaps tell your wife... but just don´t fall for her, if she is doing something like that I am pretty sure she is not worth it.
2007-03-12 23:58:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋