i dont know if this guy likes me or just flirting with me. He's my crush for about a month already. I go beyond the supposed limitation when I text him anonymously (though its really me!) I pretended that I'm a friend of the person who has a crush on him. So to make it short we are exchanging text and in the office he's kinda always there for me, he will always ask me if im ok, always checking what im doin. he will not miss a day without saying hi or asking me if its is my endshift already. he even say my hair is beautiful!We've got the chance actually to talk if what is my future plan in the company, what are my goals and even asked me what are my likes (he's once my supervisor, but right now ive got another one though he's still my boss). im just confused because he's so nice to me (so nice to be true) even some of my co-employee that he's somehow so close to me. im confused already (note:i think he has this idea that it is also me who's texting him, he told me that also).
2007-03-12 23:41:23 · 3 answers · asked by <fish_me> 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You like him. thats a given. But, do you really love him?
Its often the mystery or the challenge that will keep us rooting from admiration. The main point in loving someone is to spend each time with them in blissful love, accepting who they really are and stay forever. Love is not the vague image of mystery or infatuation, I'ts the thought of happiness and tingles each time youre with him. Do you love him? or do you love him just for now?
2007-03-13 01:19:40 · answer #1 · answered by julie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I agree he has a definite interest in you personally. You need to return his attention with the sweetest smiles you have, but wait for him to suggest going out for a coke or lunch. Whatever would be considered a half-date would probably be best. I think he is holding back because he used to be your supervisor. He doesn't want his attention toward you to make him look bad or improper. The right smile will let him know he's special to you. Good luck! @8-)
2007-03-13 08:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by Dovey 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The JIG IS UP gurl. You're sprung ... he knows it's you and you will only confuse the hell out of him if you continue to play this game because he will get sick of it.
You've done the ground work ... now make your move ... hes already given his approval ;)
If hes not married "GO FOR IT"
However, If he is married then you're in for a lot of hurt if and shame on you for flirting with a married man.
GOOD LUCK ;)
2007-03-13 07:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by Truth D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋