ive always bee very into gys, fooling around with many at a time. but now ive kissed this girl a few times and i think im falling for her! she said she loves/likes me but cant break up with her girlfriend. i broke up with my bf 4 her! we work together so it makes our work relationship reli difficult. i thoort i was over her, but im clearly not! how can i convince her to kiss me again, even if shes still with her girlfriend?! i reli enjoy kissing her, its so different to kissing a guy, so much softer.
2007-03-12 23:29:57 · 12 answers · asked by Gail M. 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I feel for you. Being in love with a woman is an amazing and overwhelming experience. Matters of the heart are precious ones indeed, hearts are so easily broken. The Wizard of Oz said himself, hearts will never be practical until they can be made unbreakable. She probably doesn't want to break her girlfriend's heart. They are probably very attached to eachother, and those attachments are not easily severed. If you believe you two have a possible life and a future together, and that she could be your possible soulmate, try to tell her. Patience is the key. It is difficult to leave someone you have loved for a very long time, even if you do believe you could be happier with someone else. She will have to decide if her loyalty to her girlfriend outweighs wanting to take a risk on love with you. Please don't get depressed, if this does not work out, there will be someone for you. There are billions of people in this world, you are never alone. Just when you think nothing could get worse, a ray of hope will shine through and make life worthwhile. Have faith. Anything worth having is worth waiting for, but don't ever despair.
2007-03-12 23:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by Binky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why should you place yourself in a category?
it doesn't matter who you love, it's the feeling that makes is special...
and yes, kissing a girl is very different than kissing a guy... but kissing isn't "living with" and that's a huge difference to...
this girl has told you that she wouldn't leave her partner for you; so ask yourself if you would step in a relationship with a married man...at the end off the day it's you who has to decide weather you can be "the third party"
and if you really want to know if you like girls or you only like this girl, the only thing you can do is some exploring but I warn you, life as a gay person isn't always easy...
good luck!
2007-03-12 23:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
each and every 15 twelve months previous desires to bang something or every physique that strikes, purely wait til all your hormones have settled down and you'd recognize what you're, theres not something incorrect with being gay or bi or quickly besides, attempt experimenting with a guy if its criminal and ur mom and dad are very nicely with it :) god bless
2016-12-18 12:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to realize that you are born a heterosexual. If you waver from that, you are simply giving in to Satan's temptations. Homosexuality is not genetic and it's not OK. It's a sin. Believe me, you were born straight - resist Satan and stay that way.
2007-03-12 23:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you really expect someone to believe this one is for real?
Go colour on your kitchen wall with permanent magic markers
2007-03-12 23:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by Dixie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well clearly you love both sexes then! so i would say your bi.......even tho i dnt believe in being bi
your either inside or outside....u cnt enjoy life standing in the doorframe now
2007-03-12 23:39:07 · answer #6 · answered by (,'')Sweet guy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you like guys YOU KNOW YOUR NOT GAY !!! lol if you like this girl your not straight!!! lol so you are bi but with more or a prefernce to men but this time around you happend to fall for a girl.
2007-03-12 23:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by itsthebeesknees123 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are into Guy and Girls and want both of them. So you are a Bisexual
2007-03-12 23:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by newsundersky 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
whoa drama! dont worry about the label.. follow your heart, treat yourself and others well, and eventually a label will stick...
2007-03-13 00:20:53 · answer #9 · answered by tomi27410 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From the evidence here I would say you are a tansexual,lesbian she-male.
2007-03-12 23:34:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋