I think its my lovey mom looking over me and telling me
the past is the past.
It won't bring her back.
Just hope those nurses have a conscience.
I do regret now not pursuing it - but at the time all our
time and thoughts were on my mom.
2007-03-12 23:17:40 · 7 answers · asked by Minxy 5 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
THANK YOU SO FAR FOR THE LOVELY PEOPLE THAT HAVE ANSWERED. MY THOUGHTS ARE
WITH YOU TOO. XXX
2007-03-12 23:41:29 · update #1
I didn't see your original question and am so sorry that your are unhappy. It's horrible to lose someone you love without wondering whether or not the hospital could have done more. I have been horrified by what I have read about the treatment of troops in Selly Oak (my son is serving in Afghanistan) but thought that they just didn't like the military.It seems I was wrong. With so many doctors and nurses out of work you would think that they could sack the heartless and incompetent medical staff and replace them. I hope that life picks up for you soon, with kindest regards.
2007-03-13 09:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by Beau Brummell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry I didn't see your question. It can't be easy dealing with your loss and then all the anger you have towards the hospital.
I am going through PTSD. Part of this I held a lot of anger and had a lot of questions surrounding various hospital decisions or lack of them. I am receiving counselling and she has helped me to let go of the anger for them so that I can continue to deal with my emotions for everything else.
Don't know if it will help you, but I made a list of everything that angered or upset me about the hospital. I then blew all of it into a balloon and took it to the top of a hill and let it go. I felt all the anger I had for them leave me and destroyed the list I had written. I know it might sound strange but it may be a way of helping you let go of what happened and allow you to find comfort and peace.
Its not easy when you lose someone close and you have to take each day a step at a time. I wish you all the best and my thoughts are with you.
:-)))
2007-03-12 23:36:45 · answer #2 · answered by Teejay 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Put it this way, at least your mom died peacefully. My father got killed while on mission project sent by the ex pres. Not only do i think it was his opponents' cunning inside job, but he died without being able to defend himself (ambush). Now whoever took his Lt. Col job, i hope he was happy but it didn't have to be that way.
he was 37, I was 7, Oct 7 1975 but my thoughts on him occupy my mind every now and then, more than anyone in my family.
We have to let it go, think of happy moments you had with her or she will not peacefully rest.
2007-03-13 00:24:37 · answer #3 · answered by oscar c 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i never saw this question at the time but i can share your opinion its a long story but my gran passed away and lets say the hospital had a lot to do with it she was,nt treated the best in hospital for 7 weeks infection was involved mrsa but we were all for her and all these issues didn't come up at the time my grandad her husband was told to take it to court he said No it wont bring her back so just thought il share that with you darling take care xx
2007-03-12 23:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry for your loss, I did not see your original question but I do know what your going through believe me, my thoughts and prayers are with you - God bless.
2007-03-13 07:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by kissaled 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i must of missed your other question,just read it.how awful i dont know how this goes on,i know how you feel bitter,my dad died in hospital,they used him as a guinea pig to try out new drugs,so angry with that hospital,i hope you get through this,hard i know,we can but try.
2007-03-12 23:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by Jaz 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ive answered your question
2007-03-12 23:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋