2007-03-12 23:09:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
so if he kissed another girl,that's not WRONG?!
2007-03-12 23:18:05 · update #1
Yes, it's sad but true. I'm fortunate that I have a partner that totally agrees with me about this. We both feel that the moment you start thinking or fantasizing about a member of the opposite sex in an intimate way, then that is wrong. It's not really a matter of "cheating", it's whether something is right or wrong. I think most men would be much better off spending their time thinking about how they would feel if someone that they cared about did to them what they were thinking of doing to someone else...
2007-03-12 23:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by Nickie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my questions I asked suggested thinking about other women when happy in love with another. All the women who answered suggested as long as you not touching, then its normal to think these things. But as you have said a non-intimate relationship, I think this is close to crossing the line. You can't control anothers behaviour, but you can control what is happening in your life. If its not cool for you; say so...All you have got to lose is your happiness if you don't communicate what you feel. I am sure if this person cares for you, they will understand how you feel. They mightn't agree, but hey, if your not happy, whats the point.....
2007-03-13 06:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by Swarm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have a conversation together on this subject. Otherwise you are going to be sitting on his case all the time... Very bad way to do. Don't be jealous, is it a very bad trait. Give each other freedom, and he will probably love you more for it. (I am not talking about having other intimate friends when I say that.)
2007-03-13 06:15:34 · answer #3 · answered by desertflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No cheating is cheating plain and simple, the rest of that crap is excuses. It belongs right up there with "men have needs" its a way for cheaters to try and take the blame off of their sorry behinds.
-NmD!
2007-03-13 06:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope not. going to movies but not doin it w/ another girl is cheating.
2007-03-13 06:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by Alpha7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a stupid question of course its cheating
2007-03-13 06:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think so. Men just don't get what is hurting us. and they don't think the same way we do.
2007-03-13 06:11:52 · answer #7 · answered by Kathleen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from a woman, i say its not cheating!
2007-03-13 06:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me,its cool dude!
2007-03-13 06:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by ysabelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋