2007-03-12 23:04:49 · 7 answers · asked by Just Ask Ashley 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No, they don't "hate" them at all, they simply choose not to associate with them.
2007-03-12 23:41:57 · answer #1 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are assuming facts not in evidence, who says butch gay men hate effeminate men? I lot of butch gays I've known have a marked preference for them. Personaly, being bi, I find them unappealing because if I'm with a man I want him to act like a man, if I want someone who acts like a woman, I'll go to a woman.
2007-03-13 11:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be considered 'butch' or masculine but no, I don't see these qualities, simply because I already acknowledge them. I know what you're saying in regards to some men being somewhat aghast at effeminate men, but for myself, it's not an issue. I like all types and don't simply exclude someone because of their affectations, after all, we all have them. I understand the caring and nurturing side of myself and feel it's an important aspect of being a "real" man. To deny that part of you is to deny what makes it possible to love, to care, to be with someone.
Just my opinion.
2007-03-13 07:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I didn't choose to be butch and I have no problem with effeminate men.... I am who I am, and so are they...
2007-03-13 07:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by tomi27410 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People are people.
Some people think being masculine is sexy [I'm one], and some people think being more feminine is sexy. Neither one is more "right" than the other.
To me, it takes all types to make this world an interesting place.
I would certainly never hate a more feminine man. I probably would never have sex with him, though.
2007-03-13 12:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are one of the top ten reasons why so many people hate gays
2007-03-13 07:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
no, it's just some of us are less flamboyant than others. that's all.
2007-03-13 08:15:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋