yes I do have a long story, I was adopted from the age of two
not by very good circumstances, appauling in fact. I had the most wonderful adopted parents, who gave me a very good childhood.
My father died 13 yrs ago, and I was totaly devestated by his loss
and really have never got over it. I got married at the age of 18
had two beautiful daughters, was married for 9 yrs, the marriage fell apart. well its too long of a story, but I have had alot of people put me thru hell and back, have had people beat me up, all because I was a kind person, I know that this does not make sense, but its true. I have always given in my life, but never ever got anything back, only abuse
I am in my 2nd marriage, I married my husband within 3 weeks
and you are probably thinking crazy woman, but now we have been married for 7 yrs, we have not had it easy, but who does
I am vulnerable, and losing my dad is like losing an arm
he gave me direction, and hope, and I feel I am out of control in my life today.
2007-03-12 22:51:36 · 5 answers · asked by Susan G 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
good luck, Susan
2007-03-12 22:55:18 · answer #1 · answered by chi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think for all that you have been through you need to get some help sweet heart.
Try your doctor, he maybe able to get you the help that you need.
You need to speak to someone professional, who deals with people that have traumas like yours.
All they do is listen, and talk to you, without you feeling judged, and they help you the best way possible in dealing with your current fears.
Don't be afraid, be strong, it will do you the world of good. x
2007-03-13 07:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by chloe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not going to fill the void left by your father's death with marriage. For the sake of yourself and your children you need therapy and counseling. You need to work on yourself so you can show your kids how to build HEALTHY relationships. good luck
2007-03-13 05:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a survivour hunni, good luck in your life - but remember we choose our own path - anything you want to achieve in your life - you can!
2007-03-13 06:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by EMA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't worry too much ...
1. you r not the only one (if that helps) ...
2. and your experience is a typical definition of life !
just try to use your experience to guide someone in helping him her improve his/her quality of life if you can and if you want !
2007-03-13 05:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by Shashiz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋