i dont know i got this habbit, its disturbing my personal and official life, i am seeing all the persons in the same motive
2007-03-12 21:24:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Human sexuality, according to some psychological theories, occurs in four distinct stages throughout our development. The first stage occurs when we are infants (Auto-sexuality, we are fascinated by our own bodies). As we approach puperty, we begin to notice the bodies of our fellow gender and see them as beautiful (Homosexuality). Usually once puberty strikes, we have transitioned into the stage we will remain for the rest of our lives (Heterosexuality), until old age when we become celibate, the fourth and final stage. It is possible that some of us become "stuck" in one stage, such as the second in your case. If you did not have a chance to explore those thoughts and feelings when you were younger, you may be getting them out of the way now. Or, there may be little you can do about it because your brain has become wired to find and enjoy same sex encounters. Either way, all politics aside, there really shouldn't be anything morally wrong with expressing affection for any like-minded human being. However, in your case, you feel it is affecting your life negatively. This could be compared to a bad habit, and anything in excess is no different. Try to understand the reasons, your reasons, for why you seek same-sex acts. Do you really enjoy them? Would you rather not do without them? Then happiness may require that you mold your life around them. Are they deep seated fantasies that disturb you? I can't tell you with only the information you've presented how best to go about dealing with these issues. You may need to see a professional counselor, they can help you work through what may be causing this, and suggest a course of action that may be rooted emotionally, chemically, or behaviorally. If you are a man, have you had any meaningful relationships with women? Do you want to? And the other way around if you are a woman. Do you think your sex drive is too strong? This can be countered with hormone therapy. And lastly if it is truly a bad habit, similar to compulsive disorders, you could try finding something else in your life to focus on other than these thoughts and actions. Something else that brings you joy and is more productive or fulfilling. Well I've gone on long enough, good luck in finding your answers. You don't need this stress, please take the steps to improving your health.
2007-03-12 22:29:39 · answer #1 · answered by Binky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Savaa, You may only be curious about how same sex partners have sex. If this is the case, i would say a lot of us are curious too. But if it's not, it's something you cannot help. You were born like this and that's the way it is. No one fault just is. A Friend.
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2007-03-12 21:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been born with 2 completely sturdy palms so make sturdy use of them bro. Confuses say, guy who pass to mattress with intercourse difficulty awaken with answer in hand. Ask your wellbeing practitioner for some lady hormones as this could kerb your sexual needs.
2016-12-14 17:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by amass 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start mixing more with the girls and womens around,dont tell me you also fell the same about them.its all about getting used to.
2007-03-12 22:13:23 · answer #4 · answered by toploser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.When ever you feel this desire , be aware and do not take action on this desire , just witness this desire , slowly this desire will vanish .
2007-03-12 21:35:36 · answer #5 · answered by binda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont think about men in that way then
2007-03-12 22:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a strip club or sumtin
2007-03-12 21:30:37 · answer #7 · answered by Alpha7 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋