My wife has a gf in India who loves my wife back. My wife says she loves both of us with all her heart and always will. I talk to this woman and have developed a close friendship with her. to tell yu the truth is that I have also fallen for her, and have told her. She says she likes me and loves me too. But she says I know what is right and wrong because i am a good person. She said she will leave it up to me to do what is next. I donn't want to hurt my wife, but I have feelings for the her gf. What should I do?
2007-03-12 20:35:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There are so many things wrong with your marriage, love. But if that's the way y'all are happy living, then...by all means. You should talk to your wife. She may surprise you.
2007-03-12 20:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by As You Wish 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let me be plain and clear very clear and listen clearly please. This person from India probably wants to establish a solid relationship with both of you and she Im sure says the same to your wife for one big reason. Most of these third countries want to find a relationship with someone in the U.S. so they move there and get residency or citizenship.
Becareful my friend you have a wife who loves you and you love her back - its not like theres a lack in your relationship. Dont let a third person you met online or conversate on the phone with inflict your reality and pierce what you have.
Watch out Ive seen it get done to very close people to me and all is end up being wrecked.
Think wisely and be a man atrue man.
2007-03-13 03:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by LighterDeep 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'd highly recommend a lot of open talks between all three of you. It could be possible to make a polygamous relationship work, but it requires open communication between everybody to keep things going smoothly.
2007-03-13 03:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not have communication with your wife's girl friend. This will break your marriage one day.
2007-03-13 04:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by newsundersky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"what should i do?" this is the question that we ask when we already know what to do. You just want to hear something different.
However, take a shot at what you think will make you happy, that's what i should.
2007-03-13 04:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by 00789 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally see a three-way coming. You lucky bastid!!!!
I hate you!!! and very happy for you.
Have fun, and report back to us.
happy threewayin,
over and out
-zhack
2007-03-13 06:54:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your wife to marry her G/F too.
2007-03-13 05:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three is a must,good for you,you have been bless!!!
2007-03-13 11:56:28 · answer #8 · answered by javo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do them both!
2007-03-13 04:42:07 · answer #9 · answered by drew 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋