why do u get hurt when something doesn't happen the way you want ?

Answer 1

Seem like a natural way...

People have great expectation... and once they get there, it is a big disappointment. Everybody didn't get what they
want in life... and yeah it does hurt...

We have such great hope... and people or weather and all
put you down.... oh well.

Answer 2

Because, people sometimes put too much into something or someone and the expectations are really high so when it doesn't work out the way you planned or pictured it to be, your ego gets crushed. Try preparing yourself before something doesn't go as planned so that your feelings aren't so caught up into it. I know easier said than done, but there's gotta be an easier way to avoid getting hurt so much.

Answer 3

you're disappointed, annoyed, even angry, and yes, hurt when the way you want does not materialize simply because you expect or want something else. although this does not happen all the time, this feeling (being hurt) is a natural, and usual, reaction to anything opposite of our expectations or intentions.

Answer 4

When you hope for something and it doesn't happen then its only natural to be hurt. Its a little thing called human emotion.

Answer 5

Because we are all progamed to to expect stuff and when somthing goes against the grain of how we were tought to be all Hell breaks out.

Answer 6

Because your a punk. It's called life. Now grab a straw and suck it up.

Answer 7

You're likely referring to Murphy's Law -

"Anything that can go wrong, will go wrong."

Answer 8

because you desire too much and cling too much .give it up and get over it and you won't hurt so much.