since from 5 month i was fallen in love with her but iam scared to talk to her whether she love me or not how i came to know
2007-03-12 19:59:49 · 15 answers · asked by mr.anwaransari 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
usually, when we "love" a person from a distance, we usually love not the person himself but the kind of person we think he/she is.
it would be better if you first develop friendship with her. get to know her while not thinking of any romantic relationship first. friendship gives you the chance to know each other.
after developing friendship with her and you find yourself still loving her despite her weaknesses and flaws, you don't need to ask other people how to bring your relationship to the next level because you already can answer that question yourself (because you know the girl better than we do).
2007-03-20 16:18:24 · answer #1 · answered by jacquie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait a little bit longer. Sometimes people think they are in love with their friends and if it becomes romantic, it gets weird and sometimes these feelings pass. You could just be feeling lonely or you could just be really close to her. You need to determine how much you value your friendship with her, because if this becomes romantic and something goes wrong you may not be able to get the friendship back. I would try to get to know her a little better before I made any moves. Just appreciate what you do have with her and try not to make things complicated.
2007-03-20 14:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by lyndsyherard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there! in high school I fell in love with my best friend Phil. He just thought of me as a sister.
I had a choice to make. Stay friends with Phil, (even though him dating others drove me nuts) or give up on our friendship? Answer:2o some years later we are still friends. He is happily married (i went to his wedding) with 3 kids. I see him once a year for lunch and would never trade that friendship for anything!!
Tell her how you feel ...she may feel the same, but if she don't, then you have a choice to make. Is she worth staying friends? (I bet she is! ;) )
2007-03-20 15:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by Darva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not even her friend yet, how can you be in love with her? I would really try talking to her about going out as friends first. If you tell her you love her, you are going to scare her away, or al least confuse her. Don't rush things. Try to grow on her as a good friend, then move forward.
2007-03-21 02:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by 3littlebirds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to get to know her more. If you don't know her feelings, then you don't know much about her.
For starters, set your goal. Your goal is to get to know her better & to start a friendly relationship w/ her.
Go slow. She may not even be ready for a relationship & if she isn't, that's ok.
It just means you have to wait for her. Sometimes we don't want a relationship, becuz we were hurt in the recent 1 that ended.
Be sensitive to her feelings & LISTEN to her. That's how you'll get to know her.
Ask her questions & compliment her. Once you've gotten to know her for a while & you're comfortable around her, tell her your feelings for her.
Good luck. â¥
2007-03-13 03:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..its wierd how u fell in love with a girl that you havent even had a friendship with...i say u just take it easy and react as if youz been friends..because you will scare her if u just tell her u love her..so take it easy and communicate with her...or else you wont get anywhere!!! good luck! ;)
2007-03-19 12:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by JB. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it slow and easy. You need to be absolutely sure of how you feel. She already knows, as she has picked up on it. Just be patient, and use the "I love you" in the best possible way. You only get one 1st time on this....
2007-03-13 03:11:40 · answer #7 · answered by fromorto12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be in love with someone you don't even speak to?
Go ahead--talk to her. She probably won't bite you. What is it that attracts you to her? Talk to her about that.
You might strike out. So what--you've got many more chances.
2007-03-21 02:02:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out...prepare a pleasant dinner....then open up to her... i'm sure 100% that if she goes out with you, there is also something within you that she likes...dont be such a baby and leave the shy "you" before you leave and talk to her.
just be prepared for her answer..be a man to accept it if she only offered friendship. who knows there is also someone who is shy to talk to you about feelings...
DO IT NOW OR SUFFER MORE LATER! ^___^
2007-03-20 13:16:59 · answer #9 · answered by 分類される 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Take more time to get to know her and be there for her. If its meant to be and you don't rush things, you just might find out that she feels the same as you do.
2007-03-20 10:20:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋