My husband is workaholic person. He works 7 days/ week, no time with me and kids. He goes home late every night. I ask him he said he's at work and he never give me his work number so I only way contact him to his cell phone. What should I do to make him do his responsibility with family? He always think he makes a lot monies mean his responsibility already help family. Is he cheating me?
Thanks for your answers.
2007-03-12 19:55:54 · 9 answers · asked by kkvv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think not giving you a work number is suspicious, being a responsible provider is important but so is being there for your family. Can you drive by his work and see if he is there? I'm afraid that is what I would do. It could be he is just obsessed with providing for his family. You need to speak with him about arranging family days, remind him his kids are growing up and if he doesn't get to know them now when will he? I would also set a date night of once every few weeks otherwise you aren't going to have a relationship left to build on. Ask him where will his family be if he doesn't connect with you guys??
2007-03-12 20:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didnt give enough info. But here is something you can try to see if he is really working when he says he is, ask to see his pay stub. You might go about this by "cleaning" out your office and filing things in folders, that way you can look at multiple stubs. Other than that, you haven't given us enough info to help you more. You don't know what company your own husband is working for? That seems odd.
2007-03-13 03:05:43 · answer #2 · answered by bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this but when we feel like I'm Doing my part by taking care home we feel like we don't have to do anything else and yes we find outside distractions to compensate for the hard work and really stop caring about the reasons we started out in the first place
2007-03-13 03:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by swass2death 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every man is different. It really depends on him, what kind of guy is he? Has he always had passion for work, or just recently. If he has always loved working and worked alot then i doubt he would be cheating but f he just started working alot then maybe he is. Look for clues, find his job number, your his wife you have the right too!!! Good Luck! :-)
2007-03-13 03:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he dont give you his work place numbers, then try to find out by your own, which company he works for? then in the night time you can drop by to find out if he really is working there or his office is closed for the day. Then you will have idea what he is up to.
2007-03-13 03:18:34 · answer #5 · answered by funxxxnxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make him understand that it's your life too.
And that his days of working 7 days a week are over now!
Or you'll be looking for an attorney and that he will pay dearly!
Then tell him your unhappy and that its something that has to be taken care of today!
Cheating I guess can be ,stated lack of , and removed from, I guess.
Good Luck
2007-03-13 03:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just ask him to give you his work number just incase something important comes up and you cant reach him on his cell and if he doesnt want to give it to you then ask him why and see where it goes from there
2007-03-13 03:02:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just have to watch him closely because if he's overworked he might find another activity to motivate him outside of ur marriage....do u see any tell tale signs, does he fulfill his obligations inside the bedroom, does he still find u attractive...
2007-03-13 03:05:08 · answer #8 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how are we supposed to know he is cheating. from what you've told us, there is no clues that he's cheating.
2007-03-13 02:59:50 · answer #9 · answered by lady26 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋