My boyfriend and I have only had oral sex so far. Lately he developed some blisters which the doctor declared as herpes. He hasn't cheated on me and vise versa so thats out of the question. We both don't know how he got it, except that he is not very hygenic and is also uncircumsised. After his so called herpes outbreak, his penis went back to normal, he let me look at it and I noticed some weird powdery, yellowish, stuff on his penis when I pulled the foreskin back. I don't know what it is, but everytime I pulled it back and forth, more and more would come out. I told him about it and he said it could be dried semen / pre-***. It was kinda grossing me out, I kept cleaning but I think its more serious than that. Could it be smegma?
2007-03-12 19:54:34 · 5 answers · asked by snuffalafagus 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Yes I would believe it is smegma, rather than dried semen. He should gently retract his foreskin and clean it all off using a damp cloth. For the next few days, it will come back fairly quickly, and needs to be cleaned several times a day. Tell him it's very easy to clean when he is in the shower, pull the foreskin back and clean the area with soap (and be sure to rinse the area well).
2007-03-12 20:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by Wise Old Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the MD says that he has herpes, you need to ask yourself if that's something you want to live the rest of your life with. While the disease is somewhat managable, it is NOT curable, and if you contract it from him, you're going to have a stressful souvenir to remember him by forever. You really need to just assume that he HAS herpes at this point, and act accordingly.
As women, we need to be proactive with our health and protect ourselves. At the very least, think of what our mothers taught us when we were very young "You don't know where that's been, don't put it in your mouth!"
It could be smegma, but it could be pus. Either way, he's taking poor care of himself, and you need to be aware and honest with yourself hun.
Take care and I wish you both the best of luck. But please, protect yourself.
2007-03-13 04:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by libra27 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NASTY BOY! Drop him from your existence right away and find yourself a clean boy who knows what a bar of soap is and how to use it. That is so nasty, I cannot fathom how you can put up with that. Love is no excuse for nasty smegma peepee. Excuse me now while I go throw up.
2007-03-13 03:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yellow d/c. and a recent diagnosis of herpes? am sorry to burst ur bubble but if u know what is right for you, RUN!!! ur boy is not telling u the whole truth.
2007-03-13 04:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by braille 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not smegma it is either pus or a yeast infection.take him back to the doctor.
2007-03-13 18:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋