Some times i wear the leotard to make me well "feel better" down there and i dont know is this to tell me something or is this just wrong and sick or is it okay to do well plz help me thanks
2007-03-12 19:39:47 · 12 answers · asked by Alex B 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Hey,
Look that's fine - as someone said it doesn't hurt anyone and it makes you feel comfortable so go for it.
Wearing different clothes like that doesn't actually play a part in your sexual orientation - orientation is based around other factors, so if that is a concern then there is no need to tie the two together.
2007-03-12 20:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by psionyxau 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course its fine. For goodness sakes -- there are other more meaningful things to think about. Let go of the twisted self-image of masculinity that was inculcated in you when you were little by twisted worthless men (and I have no idea who those twisted worthless men were, and I'm sure that made you mad -- but it doesn't change the fact that someone twisted your image of what males were to satisfy their own ego-need) and learn to just live.
You aren't gay just because you like to wear leotards. There is no reason to feel guilty. It isn't sick. Even if you were gay it wouldn't be sick. It isn't telling you anything however, except that it makes you feel good. So wear it, feel good and thumb your nose at your hangups.
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Reynolds
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2007-03-13 09:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Coming to think of it, you may well be on the verge of a great fashion trend!!! I think men should wear leotards at night, it's more supportive down there, than pajamas.
2007-03-19 07:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by Cheng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually this is a mild case of crossdressing, and crossdressers usually dress sexual arousal, not for sexual attraction, that would be a transvestite, if you have no desire to be with anyone of the same sex, then dressing up to become aroused, is all there is to it, and there is nothing wrong with any of it, you are not causing problems for anyone, not even yourself, so if it makes you feel better, do whatever you like.
2007-03-19 05:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what you wear does not make you wrong or sick. leave that to the closed minded ones to deal with. i am a cross-dresser. would love to be female or dress full time. but can not do so now. but to me as it does no harm do what you will. yes i am wiccan. may the day come when we can live and love as we wish. blessed be and follow your muse.
2007-03-19 14:09:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jimmy C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats very ok, its a comfort thing, like having a teady bear, at a sleepover my friend and I we swaped boxers & I sleep in them because I want to feel close to him, thats a comfort thing too. I think ive got more to worry about than you.
You take care David :)xxx
2007-03-13 03:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by wowdavid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear whatever you want. Go around naked. Honestly, it's not a big deal and it in NO WAY makes you gay.
2007-03-13 02:50:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
mabee u just dont know who u realy r yet there has 2 b a reason it makes u feel better u just dont know y mabee u r still denighing som of yr feelings
2007-03-13 02:51:22 · answer #8 · answered by EmosGremily 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if it makes you feel comfortable and sexy why not?;p
2007-03-21 01:51:42 · answer #9 · answered by khatzzz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop letting priest give you back rubs on Sunday afternoon's
2007-03-13 03:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋