she said "discover it by your self"
i gave it a loooooooooooot of tries but nothing work
what should i do to know what turn her on ???
2007-03-12 19:35:48 · 8 answers · asked by stifler_of_michigan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i want to know because every time we try, she is so bored and she ask me to work on turning her on.
when i try i see give me a face like i dont exists.
i tried many many times to find the answer from her but she keep telling me that i should find it by my self.
another thing, i dont want to do it with dead body. i want when i do it i see a reaction, a pleasure, i'm making love to human being not a toy for god sake
2007-03-12 19:53:17 · update #1
She's not being very nice to you. It sounds like's she's being a princess (not in a good way).
Does she expect you to read her mind?? You should just not try to turn her on and if she's all like, "Oh baby what about me?" you should say, "Well honey, if you don't tell me what you like, I'll assume you don't like anything."
Or something along those lines.
2007-03-12 22:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Pay more attention to her reactions.
2. Get a book called Heterosexuality by Masters and Johnson and read it.
3. Consider the possibility that you have made her insecure in some way of sharing what turns her on.
4. Consider what she wants isn't 100% socially accepted.
5. Get a more communicative girlfriend.
2007-03-13 02:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by Deathbunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masters & Johnson is pretty clinical. I'd recommend The Hite Report, in which a lot of women tell exactly what they like. Even if that doesn't work for your current girlfriend, the info will help you in future relationships.
2007-03-13 02:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by Houyhnhnm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a girl says find it out yourself she is all about the game so therefore you can pretty much try anything so start doing things that get you right and she will eventually point you in the right direction so you can get her right feel me
2007-03-13 02:44:48 · answer #4 · answered by swass2death 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is shy to tell you or she is playing the guessing game. Anyways, why are you bothered on what turns her on. You should be yourself and give her the love that she needs and that should be enough to last.
2007-03-13 02:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss her neck...Kiss her anywhere...find her secret spots.....Every female has atleast one spot where they are touched that get them turned on!
2007-03-13 02:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by Keith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesnt know what she likes. just do different things kiss her in different places, play with whip cream and such.
2007-03-13 03:41:43 · answer #7 · answered by werty_sw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep trying...or just 4get abt turin her on....she might not be into u.
2007-03-13 02:41:23 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋