when to tell people that I'm pregnant...?i'm 6 weeks pregante and was wondering at what stage should i start..

Question

telling people ? when did u tell people?

Answer 1

Most people wait until about 12 wks (begining of 2nd trimester) because the risk of micarriage goes down but do whatever you feel

Answer 2

Well, the first time I got pregnant I got all excited and expected everybody to be thrilled - but found that anyone who ever had a miscarriage (alot of women) - were not thrilled and thought I needed to wait and it really struck a nerve with them. The second time - I was like - phooey with anyone who has had a miscarriage I'm going to be happy like it or not. Then, I had a miscarriage - then I got pregnant again and I waited 3 months because I was much more sensitive about these things when I found out all of the people I know who have had miscarriages and are so sensitive about it - now I can understand why. 3 months is a good guideline - because then you generally know that the odds are totally stacked in your favor for a positive outcome! Of course, those who are closest to you need to know - totally - your spouse and parents and best girlfriends if they haven't had miscarriages and/or you know they will be really psyched!

Answer 3

I would say it is a preference. I told three people (expecting them to be closed mouth) about 10 weeks pregnant because I was sure they wouldn't tell. Well my mom told everyone. My friends and family. I was a little upset, but at the same time I understood why she did it. It scared me because if I had a miscarriage I didn't want to have to tell everyone. Then I realized that if I did, then I didn't want to face it alone. I had my hubby who would always be there, but I would need someone to be able to talk to who has had the same experience. Only one of my friends had experienced a miscarriage but two of my sisters have. I am 20 weeks now, but I was a little afraid. However, I would say go for it if you are comfortable telling them.

Answer 4

My first pregnancy I told everyone when I was 5 weeks!! (Twins) in my second I was waiting to tell everyone until the 12 week period cause it's alot safer once your past the 12 week stage but I had an eptopic pregnancy so I would tell everyone asap cause it's not easy to keep a secret as exciting and happy as this... Good luck

Answer 5

Due to the risk of miscarriage, I only told the few people close to me. Those I would feel comfortable around if I were to have a miscarriage. Now that I am 10 weeks, I've begun to spread the word.

It's a personal preference. What do you feel comfortable doing?

Answer 6

I started telling people as soon as I had it confirmed by a doctor at about 7 weeks. Most people recommend waiting until at least 12 weeks because that's when your risk of miscarriage drops, but I couldn't wait that long. I was too excited. CONGRATULATIONS!

Answer 7

I'm on 7th week and I haven't told anybody but my best friend because I had miscarriages before, but my husband is quite a big mouth and he has told all his family and friends including co-workers right after the blood test!

So, it's really up to you.

Answer 8

Most people wait till after the first trimester, after the first 3 months, that's when there is minimum risk of miscarriage..I didn't tell anyone till after the first trimester, but I should of waited till after the baby as born, cos the constant belly touching and goo-goo talk to my belly was SO annoying..LOL, but it's up to you on when you feel ready to tell people..

Answer 9

Usually wait until the 4th month to being telling people.

Answer 10

As soon as you feel comfortable. You might want to tell it right away or hold back. There is no wrong answer.