why dose my penis go soft right befor i try to have sex?

Question

i go soft right befori have sex i had tried to have sex a few times now with the same girl i love this girl but i cant get hard when we are about to have sex but i cna get hard when she is sucking my c*ck or giving me an hand job istay hard .. so somw thing wrong with me or some thing ?

i like girls o am not gay ok but i get hard then once we try i go soft

i like girls o am not gay ok but i get hard then once we try i go soft my heart was beating really fast and my was about to swaet and i was not doing any thing

i am only but shold i try viragra to get over my nervoues

i am only 17 but shold i try viragra to get over my nervoues

Answer 1

There's nothing wrong with you; you simply aren't comfortable with the idea of vaginal intercourse right now with this girl. Ignore those people who make gay references. Agree with your girlfriend to take a week or even a month off from trying, and learn to enjoy petting and snuggling without a goal. Learn to talk. Find out if you really do have anything in common with her. Go out and do some fun things that don't involve sex. Just take a break from it and consider how you feel about sex with her and the emotional and physical consequences. You might simply be emotionally uncomfortable with how fast things are going right now, and that's more common than most people will admit.

Answer 2

Just relax. It is mental, probably you think too much. Nothing is wrong with you. Just go with it. It'll work out. Maybe the act is not that appealing to you right now and you prefer other stuff. Things change, really. Just requires a little patience on your part. Perhaps there is a mind thing going on with your girl friend -- an expectation of performance. That kind of stuff can really backfire.

Answer 3

Im not sure why you are askin this... but have u think about the girl you loved.. do u feel really good to ready have sex with your girl? I mean.. r u excited at all or maybe you arent enjoying the girls.. I don't know how to asnwer that, but maybe you having a problem to make ur penis goes hard.. Maybe you have to go to see the doctor and see whats wrong.

Answer 4

Same thing happened to me when I first started having sex. I broke it down to the condom being the problem so my girlfriend got put on birth control and then no worries after that. But if birth control isnt an option try sticking it in before you put a condom on. Then shes already opened up and when you put the condom on if you loose a little stiffness you can get it in easier and rebuild your stiffy. Hope that made sense to ya.

Answer 5

Maybe you're just nervous.
That can cause it. If you are not feeling nervous durring that time, you might have to make an appointment with a psychiatrist.
There may be something deep in your subconcious that is preventing you from reaching an erection easily.

It's very common and nothing to be embarrassed about.

Answer 6

u have lost ur maleness..without erection at the time of sex is very pathetic..kill urself..you are fit for nothing

Answer 7

Maybe you're just not having enough foreplay and its leading to erectile disfunction. Talk to your doctor theres medication to help that now.

Or maybe instead of you going to f*ck her, have her ride you or something, maybe if she does the work you wouldn't go soft so fast

Answer 8

if you take vigra you probably die.. don't. seems like you are nervous , and still can't believe you there at that moment... hmm do this.. have her pussy wet and when she is giving u oral go fast and put it in.. ( only if the girl is not a virgin) and you should maintain if doesnt stay hard inside the vagina hmm talk to the doctor..

Answer 9

Your to nervous. have a few before turn down the lights and let your imagination go wild. Good luck keeping it hard.

Answer 10

You could have erectile disfunction, u should see ur doctor he might prescribe u viagra or cialis or something like that