You married your high school sweetheart at age 19, are madly in love with them, but secretly wish you had gotten to experience life? I love my husband, I am Bi, and want to "experiment" with other girls, but I dont want to cheat. I can't invite another women into our bedroom, but I know I can't bottle these feelings up forever. Help.
2007-03-12 18:42:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I Dont want another girl in our bedroom, I get jealous too easily
2007-03-12 18:48:46 · update #1
He knows I am Bi
2007-03-12 18:50:25 · update #2
Now that is not a situation I would enjoy being in. Wish I could help, but there aren't any easy answers for that one.
2007-03-12 18:46:17 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not to sound crude, but there's a decent chance your husband would be ok with another girl in the bedroom. Men often fantasize about having multiple partners. You may want to talk to him and see how he feels before signing off on that altogether.
2007-03-13 01:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by tony c 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honestly...you really shouldn't have rushed into marriage. If your sweetheart really loved you he would've waited for you to "experience life" if he was certain that you'd come back to him. Now you're hitched, and it's too late. I would not condone cheating on your husband AT ALL, nor would I condone a threesome. You have made a committment to your husband, and you need to keep it.
2007-03-13 14:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by dementors_suck 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys would love it if their wife would let other girls into the bedroom. Have you tried talking to him about it? He might be more open to it than you think. Like, if you HAVE already asked him what he thinks about bringing another woman into the escapade, he might be negative about it because he doesn't know if it's one of those 'infamous woman switcheroo questions.' I'd approach him seriously and honestly. It would strengthen your relationship if he's for it, and if he's not for it... well... you have to make choices.
2007-03-13 01:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by Alaina 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You already know the answer. You know your options: one of them is with your present commitment.
If you are in love with another, what would you tell your husband? I love you but there is this other side of me?
You prefer both sexes, what does this mean to your present relationship. You really can say the same thing if your love interest was a man.
You have options, but some of them are in conflict of who you are. Which bring back to the answer, the answer is: You are who you are.
2007-03-13 02:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by J. 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Why not try swinging? Swinging couples are usually married and just looking for sex so you might not get as jealous?
Send for a magazine to be posted to you, then leave it out for your husband to see. Tell him it must have come in error then judge his reaction, you never know!
2007-03-13 04:26:32 · answer #6 · answered by benn26k 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Experience 3 ways...ease your husband into it..you just might be surprised that he will like the idea. You will not know unless you do some probing. Good luck
2007-03-13 01:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cant live two lives at once or you will lose everything...it sounds like you have alot of thinking to do but whatever you do remember that it is not his fault you are the way you are dont hurt him, and always ask yourself " IS IT WORTH LOOSING THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE???"
2007-03-13 01:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by violet 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You will have to pout a side your gilt or try it or keep your curiosity bottled up.If you do try it you my want to keep it to your self.Good luck. Most men would say it is not cheating if your with an other woman.A man yes.
2007-03-13 02:06:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
have you tried to see if he would be interested?and did he or you...sounds stupid sorry know this when you got married? most guys would die for there wife to want to invite another girl...i want mine to invite another guy...lol but anyways you are what you are you shouldnt ever hide you sexuality from your partner...then you wont be able to fully enjoy the most sacried part of life you own. if its the sharing part see if he would be open to "watch".
2007-03-13 01:49:08 · answer #10 · answered by Brenda A 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋