My friend (girl) and I are really a great friends. We had a strong belief that even GOD cannot make us seperate. But fate made us like that.
When I joined my B.E I made a friend with a gal. Our relationship went very well for one year. But we had a small quarrel between us one day. She stopped talking to me. I went and asked her sorry umpteen times but she is sensitive and she didnt speak. This went for 1 and a half year and I never spoke to her for these many days.
Recently her marriage was fixed and she invited me with a very good smile. I couldnt react well as I was flying in the air with happiness. I said "Happy Married Life" and came away from that place.
I don't know how to start speaking with her. Coz some of my friends say she might called me only for the sake of calling. But I don't think so. I want to continue my friendship. How to approach her. I don't want to lose my friend. Please help me friends.
2007-03-12 18:23:32 · 10 answers · asked by Arun k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wrong.Let her be happy in her married life.
2007-03-12 18:26:58 · answer #1 · answered by love all 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your narration , i understand that both of you were good friends but it took long time for both of you to patch up.
My advice is 'attend her wedding and keep in touch through mails', the way you are feeling for her might be the same with her also. Maintain distance as she is married now, be family friend as it will be helpful for healthy realtionship between you and her.
If you talk to her once in a while there won't be any complication in either her or your life. Ask her to stay in touch through mails, it is the best way to know about her well being.
Now you are much matured than at that time you sound emotionally stable also so don't hesitate to proceed. Initially avoid to talk about past conflicts if situation demands then go ahead, do not try to show that it was her mistake but at the same time don't take entire thing on your head.
Don't miss her wedding, she will be definitely happy to find you there.
2007-03-13 08:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See now she is going to marry someone so plz don't try to stick to her.....be a friend but now understand that she is going to marry and her husband is going to be her best friend.now wat u have to do is give her some gift which she will never forget..you can gift her some good gift like a photo frame with a photo of hers and yours..and a hand made card with it would be very good.You can write in it that u will always be there for her help as a friend.
2007-03-14 06:08:35 · answer #3 · answered by Adi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just approach her the way she approached u
with big simleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
friendship like this can never end
just go yaar
u r the best friend
i am happy to hear that u want her to b happy
so stop thinking what your stupid friends say
remember what u want to do
just goooooooooo
best of luck
2007-03-13 05:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by sweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear frd, i think you must go to her and solve all ur problems.
as she is going to marry now, u will lose her fdship. so be fast and forget everything.
i m sure that if she is ur good fd, then she will understand u.
fdship is not like weak wire that can be break. so wish u all the best.
2007-03-13 09:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friend if u say that u were close friends then u should not be thinkin abt all these... she is entering a new phase of life... she may need u at any time... reason being that u both were close friends... wit time friends do get away.. but wen u get a chance to get back dont miss it.. dont hear to wat ur friends say... it has to be ur decision... jus forget wat has happened.. talk to her generally n start talkin.. be free n open... after all she is ur friend....
2007-03-13 13:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by gmanishparmar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good u respect friends and friendship ...but why u want to disturb her she is settled now ur friendship cannot stay as u feel now it has lot many things ...... understanding will not stay as u want it to be
2007-03-13 07:00:24 · answer #7 · answered by tamanaahamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont matter others you are in real friendship with her so continue her frienship, one day he know everything and come to you. so be patience and you will certainly attract her.
regards
rajesh
2007-03-13 01:36:24 · answer #8 · answered by rajeshwaran j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a family friend instead...her's and her husband's . she's got a new best friend you know...so u will have to be THEIR friend .
2007-03-13 01:43:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question.....ha ha ha
2007-03-16 23:07:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋