I've done alot of stuff that I regret, including having sex w/ 5 guys within 2 1/2 years. I've been called names & I'm sure I have a bad reputation, even though I'm now a born-again Christian and engaged. What can I do to change my reputation & how long will it take?
2007-03-12 18:15:20 · 9 answers · asked by KC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm 22 and have decided not to have sex again until I'm married.
2007-03-12 18:27:11 · update #1
If youre walking the walk then your reputation is already changing. Dont let the devil hold your past in front of your face. If God chooses to forget it then why are you remembering it?
2007-03-12 18:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Earning a good reputation after a bad one takes a lot of time and patience.
Just be who you are now, and follow Jesus.
And God, I'm sure, will help you out. Pray to him about it.
2007-03-13 01:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by Romeo (The Original) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't think you need to change but maybe remined yourself that were not god so we make unwise moves now i don't know your age but i'm 27 and its an a lot to do with growing up i hope your still young so by time the right guy the 5 will be long gone
2007-03-13 01:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by james f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are still hanging out with the same people that judge you that way? I would say get yourself into a new surrounding with better people.
2007-03-13 01:20:38 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well every1 will always remeber that... if u really want to change, stop having sex with so many guys! and i truely think that if you regret it, u will find a way to change your rep
just stop sleeping around
makesure every1 no's that u changed and you are now the NEW U! =)
2007-03-13 01:23:07 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsey T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sadly you can change but it wont stop people from talking about what you use to do. But I woudnt let it worry me just go about with your life and enjoy it.
2007-03-13 01:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just change. dont do it again. tell people you were going through a tough time but now you've changed and you're different. you shouldn't judge people on what they can't change themselves
2007-03-13 01:20:11 · answer #7 · answered by The Sun Still Sleeps... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take longer to repair your reputation than it did to destroy it-I can tell you that.
2007-03-13 01:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by reconnermom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a bad girl, always a bad girl
2007-03-13 01:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by no name! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋