I'm very nice, kind, helpful, & friendly, & people take my kindness for vulerability, stupidity, & weakness. Because they're mean & grouchy & take their anger out on me, how come they're not the ones labeled with the poor social skills? I used to be outgoing, but because of bad life experiences, I'm quiet, reserved, & shy, since I can't greet someone with a simple "Hello" without a heated, escalated argument starting, because of their grouchiness.
2007-03-12 18:12:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
omg...I think I just realized why I am so shy and reserved and stuff. Because when I was in elementary school everyone always made fun of me. Even my 3rd grade teacher yelled at me. And the same students followed me to middle school, and some to high school. By this time I had pretty much stopped trusting anyone and spend pretty much all of high school not talking and just doing things myself without other people. Now that i am in college I am the same way; i just don't even talk to anyone unless they talk to me even if I want to because I have becaome so afraid.
2007-03-12 18:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you live in New York or somethin?
Thats the only place I've ever noticed people doing that, because I'm the same way as you.
If youre in big city like that maybe you should move to somewhere less big and more friendly, theres tons of places in the world where most people are nice and friendly.
Good luck
2007-03-13 01:17:36 · answer #2 · answered by Jesus W. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would turn yourself into oil and everyone else is water ,what they say just let it roll off of ya.Don't let ignorance ruin your life,most people are just grouchy miserable weirdos anyway.I can't hardly talk to people anymore because of the same reasons,so I only communicate with my family and God.That is all that matters any way at least to myself.Have a good life and let all the haters hate.The people are missing their own images any more.So let them miss out on your happiness.
2007-03-13 01:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by one10soldier 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
forget it and let me be your friend
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2007-03-13 01:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by colorfulbooks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they just don't low how to appreciate you that's all ! just be yourself and friends will come running to you ... :o)
2007-03-13 01:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by Linda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you actually need help.....you sound a little insane
2007-03-13 02:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by robtmjr30 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋