I proposed a gal. She rejected me. Another gal proposed me, I said no to her and said that I m in love with the gal who rejected my proposal. Now the gal whom I loved is in love with me. I dont know whom to love. Whether the gal who is in love with me or the gal whom I love? Please advice. I m confused. I don't want to cheat anyone.
2007-03-12 17:52:00 · 13 answers · asked by Arun k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hey man hang in there first of all don't start something and then leave it undone or half way done if you're not sure about you're feelings yet don't make a decision you will probably regret later. Never make decisions when you're confused because at the end of the day you won't be sure you made the right choice sit down take a few days to think what you really want and need and if either of those girls really make you happy. Think about what you want before you think about what others want. Keep this in mind You're happiness comes before anything or anyone. GOOD LUCK.
2007-03-12 18:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See when I was 13 yrs girl I was having the same condition as U have then I asked my best friend about this she told me 'hajira U R so beautiful that anyone can fall in love with U but they see U R beautyness and they don't see U R heart and love so Ulove that guy who see U R heart and remember always U should love that gal who loves U because she loves U right and she w'll never do that mistake of hurting U and for whom U love she w'll always hurt saying that you came and propose me so U have to listen my words and then U R life w'll be spoiled' byeeeeeeeeeeeee....................... all the best.
2007-03-13 07:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by Rumana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur so very much confused by ur self only dude
u said that u have already said no to that girl who proposed u so whats the point of thing about her as the girl to whom u love is in love with u then just be with ur love
dont bothed about who else to loves u bcoz people do get crush on anyone so what if anyone have crush on u u got the girl to whom u love so be with her so simple
god bless you
2007-03-13 03:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by shabana o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never please all... all the time..
Although its "better" to be loved than love.. but this is one area, no matter how many people suggest you, your heart will always do the opposite...
Its futile to chase the wind, when in confusion... Just STOP
let the dust settle down.. when you are able to see clearly, hear you heart.. follow it
despite making the wrong decision you will not regret.. thats the beauty of following heart
2007-03-13 00:57:50 · answer #4 · answered by Untouchable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know much about this sort of situation except that you dont want o marry someone that you dont love because even if it seems that the one that loves you could have enough love love for the both of you, she cant. It will just end up a bad marrage.
2007-03-13 00:58:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should give preference to the person who loves u than whom u love.
Bcoz, u can learn to love but u cant teach anyone how to love
2007-03-14 06:12:47 · answer #6 · answered by sneha y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give some time to analyse.Its not that someone says I love you and you start loving or hating the person.Take your own time as time only will tell you who really loves you.So do not hurry any commitment.
2007-03-13 00:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell goes the girl who doesn't understand your love. Accept the girl who proposed. Think it the girl who proposed you too is confused.
2007-03-13 00:58:49 · answer #8 · answered by larry G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love the one your heart says to love just because the other loves you doesn't always mean you love them back.
2007-03-13 00:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by kissy s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go for what your heart disier... even though you mite loose a chance off going out with someone who love you for you... but i think its worth looseing someone you dont like cuse like that you wont heart her when she find out who you rilly love and maybe in time the girl you love will give you a chance........thats what i think but its rilly up to you........
2007-03-13 01:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by morena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋