i am about to give up!
i am 14 and i know that all the adults dont understand wut i am going thorugh but if u cant give me a helpful answer then dont give1 at all! i am not just a stupid kid messing around!
my life is $h!+
i swear ill do it if i dont get help!
2007-03-12 17:43:43 · 15 answers · asked by Lindsey T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You can find a counselor or therapist to talk to, then you'll have someone in the flesh to be with you when you need them.
I go to family counseling once a week, if it wasn't for that, I'd be a big mess. Instead, I now have control of the messes . . .
Best wishes to you.
2007-03-12 17:50:38 · answer #1 · answered by Zeera 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute--what in the world is your problem?? 14 is a tough age for millions of 14 year olds---all kinds of issues--it can be overwhelming--that is a fact. But all this stuff is a learning experience----your whole life is going to be full of issues--how you handle them is all about what you learn. Relax, take it easy---one thing at a time. You don't say what's eating you---but I don't want to diminish what you are feeling---I want you to understand that everything can be settled--it just takes time---and you have to agree, it is time that will win out if you let it. You aren't giving time a chance here. There is no At your age you should be having some fun and going to school--I don't know what is piling up on you--so go and talk to a professional.
2007-03-13 01:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are here on earth for a reason and that reason was not to do harm to your self. Secondly who says adults dont know what you are going throught? We were all your age at one time and the difference now is that we want to prevent "you" from doing the dumb things we did. Sure it dont seem all that bad now but when you reach 20 you will see things differently. And another thing you are not stupid! everybody goes through ruff patches in their life at your age. So dont give up now you have a full life to lead.
2007-03-13 01:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to help yourself by picking up the phone and calling a support line also hospitals have emergency admission . Also ask God to help you, I promise that life is so special and beautiful! It is a very delicate balance and you may not understand everythhing or anything around you BUT , It can and will be better if you slow down and ask for help. If you dont know how to reach out then look at the internet and look at nature things to make you laugh , books are amazing and so many out there to help you through life. I promise !! Smile ILOVE YOU!!!OXOX Janine!!
2007-03-13 00:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by janine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I use to be where you are. 4 years ago I was so upset, I didn't even care if I lived or died. I called my closest friend to come out and get drunk with me. No one ended up coming out with me. I got drunk and walked around the city alone. I remember looking in through a crowd of people wondering if this was going to be the last moment on earth for me. I walked from bar to bar in my depression, thinking that I was going to die that night. I didn't even care if I did. I ended up driving home. I made it home and fell asleep. Many times I look back at that night wondering if I did actually die. Now I look back at that night as my lowest point in my life. Every great moment I have now I wondered if I would experience it if I died that day. Every time something good happens to me and I'm happy, I wondered If I would miss it because I died that day. I have had lots of great times in the last 4 years. I wouldn't have had experienced any of them if only I died that day. So, wouldn't you wonder what great thing you can do if you didn't die?
2007-03-13 00:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by tctesting 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes you need help. Listen everyone has problems, sometimes they feel like it is insurmountable. But if you give things a chance you can see it does get better. Don't be foolish and do something tragic. I agree you do need help, and I think you need to discuss these problems with someone you trust. Life is what you make it , so make the most of it . Good Luck to you...
2007-03-13 00:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by jeff7241 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, stop right there, take a deep breath and remember, as alone that you feel, you are not alone. Honey there are people that can and will help if you let them. It sounds like you have been through alot of pain, and hurting, and for this I am sorry. You deserve to be happy, deserve to feel better. Depression is a chemical imbalance. It is a disease like cancer and does not go away by itself. You are not crazy, you are hurting and scared and desperate and I have been there. Please, PLEASE, pick up the phone call 911 and let them know you are at your breaking point, they can get you and take you to a place that can help you sort all of life's painfull pieces out, If you don't want to call 911 get out the phonebook, look up the number to local hospital and call and talk to the ER staff their. They know of ways to help you, you need immediate medical attention. You are not to blame, chemical imbalances happen after very stressfull or traumatic times, and it sounds like you are going through one. Please call for help, I will pray for you.
2007-03-13 00:57:29 · answer #7 · answered by Shyler 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please Hunny read this!
Dont do whatever it is your thinking of doing, ive tried it all cutting my wrist, atempt of suicide, and noone of it helps, it just makes you more depressed!, I had alot of family issues and **** in my life, and i though that was the onle way outt, and then i though, even though my lifes cruddy right now and i think people dont care, they do!, Holy S*** they do! I finally had a friends night and showed them my scars on my wrist and let it all out, you wouldnt imagine the heavy emotions that night,, and although it was hard, letting it out to everyone, actully helped me it made me feel more free from my flaws, so what i suggest is please dont do it, dont be like me and live these scars on your body, the thoughts in your mind, they stick with you forever always in the back of your mind, so please maybey do what i did, have a friends night and tell them, i swear to you it works belive me if it wasnt for my choice to have a friends night and spill it all, i would not be here right now, so please, please dont do it! Dont be like me!, Dont make the wrong decision, cause you will regret it,!
2007-03-13 01:17:17 · answer #8 · answered by jahnaa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is a permanent solution for temporary problems. Surely you have responsibilities and people who care. 14 years old is way too young to make any rash decision such as to what you are contemplating. Get some help.
2007-03-13 00:55:45 · answer #9 · answered by Jay C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Killing yourself is never the answer.It is a permanent answer to a temporary problem.I have been in a similar situation myself but thank the lord i was not successful.Their has to be someone you trust that you can talk to.I will be praying for you and please get some help.
2007-03-13 00:58:25 · answer #10 · answered by Heather T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋