The thing is that I don't know why. I have a good job, i am in school, and my relationship with my daughter is great. I am not fat any more either. However, I feel so sad and lonely. I have friends but I don't think they really like me. And when I go out it seems that noone wants to be around me. How can I fix this?
2007-03-12 17:42:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow, you really need a refresher, perhaps a trip to the Florida Keys, the water is crystal clear, lobster diving is awesome, you can swim with the dolphins. Who knows you may even decide to stay. You just sound like your tied down to the grind and have lost the spirit. You just have to break away and experience life so that you have something interesting to discuss with people. Remember, this is your life, it isn't a dress rehearsal. When they stick you in that box, it will be you and only you, there ain't no hitch on a hearse. The time to live is now! Good Luck
2007-03-12 17:54:56 · answer #1 · answered by Cheryl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at this objectively. You are basically alright ,, good job, great daughter, and wow!! you even lost weight!! that itself is an achievement to be proud of!! You not doing so bad after all!! What I feel is actually "wrong" here, is that fact that somewhere deep in you is the feeling that somewhere, somehow you are not doing the right things, and that you are not happy, and this has manifested itself in your demeanor. I feel too, that this is the basic reason that though you have friends, they distance themselves from you because of the aura that you create around yourself. Shake it off, look to the sun and smile, life's not all that bad. let the dark cloud that's following you around go on vacation while you repair relationships with your friends. The black cloud will leave for good when it finds that it's place has been taken!!!! Good luck, keep smiling.
2007-03-12 19:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you VOLUNTEER to help out someone in need for a spell, this is guaranteed to take you out of the doldrums.
Also, you sound as though you're experiencing seasonal affective disorder; many of us do so get involved outside of your home and job and wait out the return of springtime.
IMHO
2007-03-12 17:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by MJ D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay away from your friends for a while and see what happens.Be there for your baby she needs you.That is all that matters.Don't worry about them.If they need you they will come back.Then if they don't oh well.Do what's best for you and your baby.
2007-03-12 18:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should look deep into your heart and find whats best for you or get help
2007-03-12 17:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
me to waiting 3 years your just in a rut . give it time. and when you go out is all you talk about is your ex . don't just be you
2007-03-12 17:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Count your blessings. Don't focus on what you're missing and learn to cope with what you have.
2007-03-12 17:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by bittersweetlove21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try meditation or yoga works for me.
2007-03-12 17:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by Barbara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good, go ahead and buy this really big hand gun and bullets with explosive charge and end it all
2007-03-12 18:49:47 · answer #9 · answered by nikhil d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give your baggage up for adoption and start a new life
2007-03-12 17:55:29 · answer #10 · answered by Scpwnz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋