im feel empty, i cant even feel certain emotions, i miss having emotions?

Question

i just feel like im becoming a robot or something, i dont connect well with people,and i dont have much people to tell them my problems, i dont know i dont even feel the urge to eat, or to think about crushes, or to think of my goals in life, im pretty bored and addicted to computer games, im even starting to think of cutting my connection with my textmates cause i no longer want to rely with them about my problems, i just want to feel something sometimes i just even want to have sex if i could , if i would not get pregnant just to feel , or hurt myself by cutting it, what is wrong

Answer 1

i think you just want some genuine attention, you need to get away from your computer if you see it as an addiction you need to stop it plain and simple. you say you dont have much people to talk to but your gonna cut connection with your textmates whats up with that ? get out of the house and go meet people, check your newspaper for community events and stuff try bringing some food over for your neighbors and introducing yourself, also having sex just for the sake of trying to feel...
nothing good will ever come out of a situation like that. you said you missed having emotions meaning you had them at first ? find out where you first lost them then start back over from there.. the first step in fixing a problem is first admitting you have one, go through the solutions and try and pick the best one that you think is best, everyone has their ups and downs no one person is perfect but does that mean we give up ? its all part of life kiddo as long as you have the will to better yourself which i believe you do or else you wouldnt have wrote this question seeking advice, it will all work out.

when i was going through tuff problem once my dad told me this neat little story think of people like chairs you'll be running down the road of life and you'll eventually get tired and want to rest, along the way you run into a few chairs some when you sit in will just crumble and fall like pieces of junk but if you dont give up eventually you will run into that nice one with a ice cold cup of water in its cupholder with your name on it. you can only go as far as your willing to push. dont frown you never know who is falling in love with that smile :)

Answer 2

I am not a health professional but it sounds to me as if you might be suffering from depression. I don't know where you live or how old you are but this is something you should discuss with a doctor, nurse, councillor, someone in your church (if you know of one near you). If it is depression, there is help out there and it works!

Something else you you try (if my first suggestion doesn't seem right for your situation) is to join a new group or volunteer for an organization that would teach you new skills and as a by-product meet new people who you might be able to connect with. If nothing else, it will get you out of the house so you can start re-connecting. Computer games are okay if you enjoy being alone.

If you have the money, take a course, learn to dance, or go to your local art store and take a class. You might find you enjoy it, if not, the experience is never wasted. It will help you feel better about yourself and might give you a nudge in the direction you really want to go in so you can start setting your goals. Remember when goal-setting to start small and work up to what you really want so you don't get frustrated.

Hope this helps!

Answer 3

Get out take some drugs, have some sex, play music loud, sing in the middle of a grocery store, run through the woods naked, look at the stars more than your computer screen. Dont become what the goverment wants us to become, robots. Dance in the streets, open your mind let human life in. Dont worry and dont see a doctor they will tell you something is wrong with you. Nothing is WRONG with you. You are perfect! Use your challenges/"problems" as a jumping off point, realize your fears and then run through them dance into them. Recognize your own beauty. Pay attention its all important, you might miss something>

Answer 4

you sound empty. i think you have arrived at the same point i did a year ago. it sounds like you dont feel like doing anything, nothin matters and you just want somthing in your life to make you happy. but i will tell you, nothing with make the emptieness go away, nothing. once you do something to bring you happieness, you will be back for more because it fades away. everything on this earth passes away, even you.

i guess what im getting to is the only way to fill your life is to fill it with what it was ment to be filled with, God. it doesnt mean you become some ritualistic person who follows a bunch of man made rules. just tell your jesus that you are tierd of the life that you are living, and accept him. He will forgive every single thing that you have done aginst him, it will be like you are perfect in his eyes, and then He will start filling up your life with how he wants you to live, and how he wants you to live is the way you were created to live, therfore it is the only way to live.

all the pain you feel, God will take away if you would only cry out to him. He is there, and by the way, you can talk to him anytime you want.

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Answer 5

Get outside. Walk in a forest, or by a lake, or even in a park if that's all that you have available.

Don't wait for something to come along and change things for you. Talk to the people that you pass on the street. Stop worrying about what they might think. They are doing the same thing that you have been doing. Waiting for someone to talk to them.

Be the change that you want to see in the world, or that change will never happen for you.

Cutting is a lonely pass time. In the end all it gets you are ugly scars.

Email if you need to talk about this.

Love and blessings Don

Answer 6

You are undergoing a mental phenomena due to getting involved in the outer world too much. Have you ever tried to search yourself from inside. You need to give more time to discover yourself.

Try to get up early before sun rise come out under the sky or in a garden. Sit and close your eyes and concentrate on your breathing and just watch it inhaling and exiling. Do it for 15 minutes daily. within a weeks time you will find yourself a changed person. continue this practice without break throughout your life and extend the time from 15 minutes to 1 hour.

Answer 7

You are describing symptoms of depression. You should see a physician and tell him what you're feeling. There are lots of medicines available that can put you back on an even keel. They're not happy pills, but you don't need happy pills. You just need for that invisible something to stop pulling you down, sucking the life out of your body.

I've been there. I was on the razor's edge. Take a chance. And if the first physician doesn't take you seriously, see another.

Answer 8

Is there anybody you can talk to face-to-face about this? Your parents or a relative you like or a teacher or a priest? What you're describing are some of the things that being really depressed makes you feel like. It's sort of like being drunk - you're not thinking clearly, and you can't really trust your own judgement, even if what you think seems prefectly alright.
One of the best things you can do is to find someone to talk to that you can trust and just start talking. Talk about all the things that bother you, and the things that you feel bad about. Sometimes that can start to get things sorted out. It's hard to see things in yourself sometimes without dumping them out into the open to someone you trust.

Answer 9

___You sound depressed. And you sound young enough not to have had time to develop coping skills. You can acquire these over time, but in the meantime, try to find an adult whom you trust, and speak to him or her. A parent or teacher, perhaps. You might want to see some sort of therapist or doctor.
___Keep in touch with your friends. Talk to your parents.
___You say you don't connect well with people, but this is an acquired skill, and takes practice. You don't have to look at yourself as someone who doesn't connect well with people; just as someone who dosn't connect well YET. And you might find that you connect better than you think, anyway, since if you're depressed, you will tend to underestimate your strengths. So keep practicing.
___Your suffering is a signal that something needs attention. You will do better if you can get the ball rolling yourself; it will give you some sense of control, and then you can go through whatever is involved with a sense that you're the one responsible for it and take credit for it-- right from the start. Don't do anything to sabotage your situation. You don't need to. If you're depressed, take care of it. You don't need to hurt yourself, cut yourself off from friends, or have inappropriate sex (it won't help). It does no good to make your situation worse. You know how bad you feel, so you don't have to convince yourself any more that it needs attention, Do something about it.
___It can take courage to do something about this, but you'll have something to congratulate yourself for afterwards.
___Some adults who don't understand depression might say, "just snap out of it." Snapping out of it is a refined depression skill, and beginers can't rely on it. Some can never rely on it. When you're young, though, it seems like the worst thing to hear, and one can go through many years hating the sound of the words, before one gets to the point of realizing that there is a small nub of "snapping out of it" that can't be entirely avoided. Talk therapy or talking to you friends helps, but you can also begin to pay attention to generating some energy to begin...to begin any new thing, any task, any day. Pay attention to how you can focus your attention to throwing yourself out of bed in the morning, if you have trouble with that, or throwing yourself into a chore, if you have trouble with that. Right now, you have something to throw yourself into, and that is addressing your depression. So think of one specific thing you can do in this regard, and throw yourself into it. And then the same with a second thing. Often getting the ball rolling is the hardest part.
___That dull feeling of depression has to do with blunted effectiveness. For immediate, if temporary, relief, clean your room or some other small task whose results are visible. Any little accomplishments will help.
___Youre still young. As you get older, you may well decide that you learned a lot during this period of your life, if you use it well now. Try to give this some thought. It is possible to use this time in better or worse ways. It does make a difference what you do.
__The suffering isn't a judgment on your worth. This is a frequent mistake people make in depression. You don't "deserve" to be depresssed. If you strip away the feeling of judgment from the depression, it gets a little lighter and more manageable.
___Be careful not to wallow in it. Don't feed it with depressive thoughts. Some people seem to guard their depression like a valuable possession, as if being depressed makes them special, or punishes them for some guilt. But you'll be able to do more for the world if you get past the depression, that is, if you take care of yourself.
___And when you're young, you're just learning to articulate your feelings. This will get better as you go along. So will the patience.

Answer 10

most people sometimes have that kind of dillema youre having, but sometimes people are too busy to notice it or most people are also just really good in riding those feelings when they occur..it becomes a problem though when you have thoughts of hurting yourself , i would recommend for you to seek medical advice if you really have noone to talk to about it.. look around you there are people who are worse off than you..think about those unfortunate kids who die of hunger, those people in the third world countries..read a good book or do something worthwhile sometimes just doing something different from ur normal routine helps..i wish u well..

PS..n 2nd thought the first advice up there was pretty damn good..lol..."best answer" i think..