2007-03-12 17:14:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In my opinion, absolutely not! It is possible to truly love someone and have the temptation to cheat. If if the person really loved his/her partner, they wouldn't cheat. The temptation is an indication that something is missing in the relationship and needs to be worked on.
2007-03-12 17:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I cheated on someone once when I was 17... very young and stupid. I didnt realize just how much I loved him until I did. When I saw the hurt on his face and knew that I was the cause of that. It was devastating. I was stupid, I cheated bcs I wasn't getting what I needed from him. I wanted to get his attention and went about it in such a horrible, cruel way. I could never hurt anyone like that again.
I think that some people can cheat on someone that they truly love. People make mistakes.
2007-03-12 17:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by Linnygirl 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is a very complicated issue and I think it differs from couple to couple as well as with individuals.
Personally, I think that there is a huge chasm between love and sex. If they were the same thing we would love every person we have sex with and to me, that is not the case.
Sex is an animal instinct, an attraction on a basic, physical level, whereas love is more than that and there isn't room to describe its complexities.
You can love someone and find yourself attracted to another, and if you make the judgment call to act upon it, you are breaking more of a social contract of marriage or relationships, but I don't believe it signifies that you don't love your partner anymore.
It is definitely not behavior that I would recommend. It usually complicates a person's life in extreme ways.
2007-03-12 17:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by smp1969 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nope....absolutely NOT possible.
Loving someone takes into account their feelings. Now think how you would feel if the one person that you trusted your heart to, the person that you would do anything for, ....this very special love of your life....How would you feel if this person went out and was intimate with someone else? How would you feel if this person that you "love", was doing things to another person that they should only be doing with you?
It would feel pretty crappy, I would imagine, and that's not something you do to someone you care about, much less someone you claim to love.
If you are thinking about it, you are definitely with the wrong person, or you just don't love them like you say that you do.
If you have already done it, you're a dog.
2007-03-12 17:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by Surfer Dad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say what?? Yes, it is possible to cheat a person that some one truly love ,as long as that person is you. Normal persons don't want to be cheated on any matters,money marriage,love affairs etc.etc...And every body knows that...
2007-03-12 17:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not. If you really love someone you think of nobody else and you just can't wait for them to show up or for you to get home from work. If you really and truely love someone then the thought of cheating never crosses your mind. Take care Heather
2007-03-12 17:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends. At 25, i would have said no but now at 40.... I have seem alot of hurt and "cheating" It seems that when one cheats, they allow their low esteem or poor impulse control to rule. I have personally never cheated but I know men and women who did and some are very remorseful. No one is perfect and we can all make mistakes.
2007-03-12 17:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by mizzmel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well of course. Loving someone deeply is one thing, and, having sexual relationship with another is...........in my opinion, another thing. Perhaps you are looking for a certain satisfaction (not necessary carnal) that the one you deeply love does not provide. Say, if you love chocolate ice cream, is it ok to love chocolate marble ice cream then? This of course is strightly from a non religious stand point. I personally don't encourage multiple partners relationship. Neither do I encourage you to have it.
Sincerely, PeterT
2007-03-12 17:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have debated this time and time again in my head and have come up with this. If you really love the person, there's no way you could hurt them like that.
2007-03-12 17:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 12:15:39 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋