would you invite your best friend who is bisexual to a pool party with all girls
2007-03-12 17:10:20 · 15 answers · asked by Tiffany M 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yes invite her for sure. it's a pool party, not a sex party.. she's your best friend and she loves and respects you too much to try anything that would cause embarssment. not all bisexuals are looking for sex with everybody all the time..
2007-03-12 17:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, absolutely. just because she is bi, doesn't mean she wants to jump on the other girls. so it would be totally cool. and hey, so what if she did like them, a crush is personal, and if it became more than a crush it would be the other girls choice too. but i doubt all that can happen at one pool party, so no big deal. and even it if did, as long as everyone is happy, thats what would matter to me. i would probably try not to make a big production of her sexual orientation though, only because you never really know how the other girls would react and that could be very uncomfortable for her depending on their reactions. unless she was comfortable with everyone knowing, i suppose that would be up to her.
well thats my two cents anyway.. lol
2007-03-13 00:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by Curious Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason not too. I hardly think she's going to hook up and be making out with the other girls at your party. If you alienate her because she is bi she won't be your best friend for very long. I think if you were really close, best friends you wouldn't need to ask us this question. A friend is a friend no matter what or not at all.
2007-03-13 00:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by Kurius_Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because someone is sexually attracted to women doesn't mean that they can't "behave themselves" around a group of women- in bikinis or not. When I told my friends I was bisexual I got a lot of the same reactions. But I can be around girls or guys and not be physically attracted. To not invite your best friend would probably really hurt her feelings, and would also be mildly offensive. Just because she is bi doesn't mean she is going to lust after every girl she sees.
2007-03-13 00:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by Erin 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I can tell that your not a real friends.....real friends dont hesitate to invite their friends to a pool party just cuz of their sexuality
2007-03-13 00:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by ღ 3SA sL33PY CaNT B3 sToPP3dღ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's an obnoxious question. Well, at least to me. You couldn't go to an all gay male pool party without jumping someone?? Same thing.
2007-03-13 00:43:57 · answer #6 · answered by Iafffu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best freind is bi
and he would love a pool party with all girls
and if you best freind is bi then she would too
people who are bi are just people thier love life only affects themj
2007-03-13 00:12:53 · answer #7 · answered by drezdogge 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah of course it doesnt matter who she's attracted to, i mean, if you had a coed party, would you be like, ooohh no guys allowed cuz they'll all be checkin the girls out? didnt think so. if she's your friend, it shouldnt matter. plus, i mean, which one of us hasnt sneaked a look at another girl to go, ha! my boobs are bigger! lol i mean, really. its simple. <3
2007-03-13 00:14:54 · answer #8 · answered by scarheadlovesferret 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
nothing. n he wouldnt mind being at a party wit girls in bikinis
2007-03-13 00:16:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Just because one is attracted to a certain sex doesn't mean they are attracted to every single person of that sex. Are you attracted to every man or every woman? Probably not.
2007-03-13 01:33:48 · answer #10 · answered by peace_iris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋