she thinks she is all that just because she wears abercrombie, ae, and all them otehr brands EVERY SINGLE DAY!! gosh her and my other friend are in my class and it seems like they are just completely ignoring me, so i am by myself in class. & of course, they get away with everything too!! what can i do?
2007-03-12 17:04:49 · 15 answers · asked by JustWannaAskQuestions 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ughh..I used to be like thatt...now i hate abercrombie, AE, hollister and everything associated with it...
Since i moved to LA...i shop at higher end designer boutiques..with more diversity and originality in their clothes
A&F, AE, hollister are teeny bopper lines...girl you dont want to be associated wit that!
I suggest you act just like your friend does and think youre all that..the relationship will self destruct because you cant have to big egos in one circle and then you guys will have learned your lesson
2007-03-12 17:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by Erica Giselle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember high school (not too long ago) and one thing I realized about the girls (even my friends) who wore all the expensive clothing and flaunted their "assets"...they were all insecure. Your friend is looking for attention because some part of her is completely insecure, so she makes up for that insecurity by acting like she's all that. As far as her and the other girl ignoring you goes, I think she probably thinks you get jealous when she doesn't pay attention to you and enjoys the extra attention. As sad as this often is, it's true.
The best thing you can do for a friend in this situation is to ignore it. I know that sounds odd, but I had a friend who did this to me. She always threw me backhanded compliments and acted like she was so much better than me. So, when I'd finally had enough, I pretended like I didn't hear any comment she said about her clothes or her money, etc. Eventually she realized she wasn't going to make me jealous and get the attention she wanted and she let her ego drop around me. Unfortunately though, for a lot of girls they are just crying out for attention and using material possessions and bad attitudes to cover their insecurity.
Maybe try talking to her and seeing if she opens up to you about this issue. Telling a friend how you feel can never be bad unless they were never really a friend to begin with.
Hope this helps, and good luck!
2007-03-12 17:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by roxyslvr04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously you are not going to like this answer: FIND NEW FRIENDS...
those two bytches seem very superficial (sp)...what do you see in them?
Abercrombie and AE dont hide or give character.
If you find a few friends who care more about what is inside of a person, the friendship will have more substance.
Look within yourself and make sure YOU have not excluded someone from a friendship because of their outward apperance.
the girl in your class with braces or the bucked teeth my prove to be an awesome friend.
reevalute the other girls in your class from the inside out and see what happens!
2007-03-12 17:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by lisa s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, you find out who your true friends are when your down and having the worst of times. Your best friends stick beside you no matter how you dress or how you feel on certain issues. Once you get out of high school you'll stick with your true friends and realize that most the people you encountered while being there don't really matter. I live in small town USA and still haven't seen over 90% of the people I went to school with.
2007-03-12 17:13:49 · answer #4 · answered by mikie t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the sound of things, you're still young. While I know it may be hard right now, once you are out of school, none of those things are going to matter. If your "friends" are ignoring you and being mean simply because they wear nicer clothes than you, are they really your friends anyway? I know it probably hurts your feelings, but move on and find people that respect and like you because of who you are and not what you wear.
2007-03-12 17:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how it feels to have friends who make you frustrated. Have you tried telling her how you feel? If you don't she will go on thinking you don't have a problem with it. IF you tell her and she gets angry and walks away she adviously isn't much of an understanding friend. You can try and say I was only being honest and if that doesn't work - its time to move on..... and as for the other friend try asking what you did to deserve being ignored
2007-03-12 17:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by alisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends would never make you feel alone or ignored. If they are really your friends, you should be able to tell them how you feel. Clothing do not make the person, she may be hiding something under her name brand clothers. If your friend is making you feel low, go your way,make new friends you sound like a nice person, i'm sure it won't be hard. Good Luck!
2007-03-12 17:13:34 · answer #7 · answered by kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life and quit being so superficial...wear what you want to wear and don't give hoot what other people think or do...be your own person...why r girls so catty anyway?
2007-03-12 17:08:34 · answer #8 · answered by Steelhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur "frands" don't really seem like real frands to me so just be yourself and drop them and go and find some new friends, bcuz frands r ppal who when ur around them u don't have to pretent to be someone else. and im sure that there are better ppal out there who would like to be ur frand.
2007-03-16 16:35:43 · answer #9 · answered by Hoa L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its hard but jus **** it!
cuz the world is run by..THE MAN
and wutever u do the mans just gonna ruin it
i got a gf and i dumped her 4 no reason cuz i knew THE MAN
was just gonna ruin it!!!!!!!!!!!!
u can STICK IT TO THE MAN! with ROCK N ROLL
oh no! but the man ruined that with a little thing caled ******* MTV!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-12 17:07:41 · answer #10 · answered by supermariobroskid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋